I delivered both of my boys in the ABC rooms with West Sub Midwives. DS2 was a wonderful, amazing waterbirth. It was everything I ever wanted. DS1 was a great birth too. For DS1 I was able to stay in the ABC room for our whole stay-a very rare occurrence. With DS2 I had to move out the next morning, but it was ok. The nurses were fine, not great, but they generally left me alone. There was no problem refusing things, eye goop, HepB, circ. I think they know the ABC patients are "different" and just let us do our own thing. They are good with exclusive BFing and have a LC on staff now (with DS1 they didn't and I really could have used the help).
When you first go in they will hook you to the fetal monitor in the triage room for about 20 minutes, but that is the most invasive thing I experienced. Actually, with DS2 I was complete when I arrived, so we skipped that.
I love West Sub Midwives. DS1 delivered with Julie, who is no longer there, and DS2 delivered with Cynthia. Both were fabulous: very hands-off (I can't stand to me touched in labor), asking before doing anything, very calm and encouraging.
Welcome to MDC both of you!