I need some advice in reconnecting with my husband.
We've been together for almost three years and married for a year and a half. We weren't friends before we started dating. We met at work and started dating after a party we went to. We got engaged seven months after we started dating.
He works full-time. I've been in graduate school since right after we got married and I started a full-time job at the end of August. Between our two schedules, we only have Friday and then Saturday night to spend time with each other. When Friday comes around, we just end up sleeping late and then sit around, watching tv. This fall has been very hard for me because I started a new job with a completely different schedule and my classes have been rough.
I'm also on Lexapro for anxiety and depression issues. My sex drive has dropped dramatically in the past six months. Between that and the stress of work and school, I really don't feel like being intimate with my husband. My husband is on Lexapro and Prestique and he's told me that his sex drive is pretty low and he's been feeling a lot of anxiety at work.
My husband and I really don't do anything together except watch tv and go out to eat. We're talking about going on vacation to Oregon during the summer, but that's a long ways off.
I know (I hope) this is just the stress talking, but I wonder if I made a mistake in marrying him. I know it's a terrible thing to say. We seem to have nothing in common. We have similar senses of humor, but that's about it. I don't feel close to him anymore. I don't know how to fix this.