I'm not hard-core. So the "official" answer might differ. But...I've been trying to think forward to how these ideals would translate for an older child (in my case a boy). Probably the key things will be plenty of outdoor time and minimize screen time. Teach them to use their hands if they don't already. Teach them real, every day skills: baking, cooking, building, sewing, knitting, painting, etc. Try to work out a rhythm that works for your own family. Find one or two things and go from there. Family celebrations - official or special just for you - can be simple and everyone can help out in age appropriate ways.Â
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That's how I see my own future anyway! I have a lot to work on already since we don't get to do a lot of outdoor time where I live (oh how I want a yard for my guy to run around and explore!!! he puts up with a deck instead and plenty of outside time at preschool) and we do more screen time than we should. It's a constant work in progress!
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Good luck! I know you can benefit your older kids. I have found that I have benefitted as much as my son since I started trying to implement these changes in our home! They're good for everyone!!
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Oh! More ideas! :)
Learn the stars together as a family. A late-night picnic star-gazing would be a fabulous memory!Â
Maybe too late this year, but start trying to do home-made gifts for each other. Everyone has a skill that can be used.
Read aloud with each other...the classics. Pick a wonderful story and take turns reading each night, or one night a week...whatever works for your schedule.
If you have room, maybe give each kid a patch of garden to work--or even just a couple of pots if you don't have a yard. This winter, let them start looking through seed catalogs to decide, then grow seedlings in the spring and so on.
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There are so many cool family projects that can be enjoyed by everyone!