If you think the cups might be confusing you could give her four dollar bills, four dimes and seven pennies and ask her to divide that money evenly into three piles. Tell her you're the banker and you can make change any time she needs it. WriteÂ
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If she's like most people she'll start by distributing the dollars. One dollar in each of the three piles. She'll have one dollar left over and she'll want to make change -- give her ten dimes for it, which will give her a total of fourteen dimes. Add the following to the paper:
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Say "One dollar in each pile: that's part of the answer, so that goes on top. One dollar left over, regrouped into dimes: now you have fourteen dimes. Which coins are you going to share out next?" Now she'll probably distribute the dimes, four in each pile, with two left over. She'll want to change the leftovers into pennies. Take her two dimes, give her twenty pennies and add the following:
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Remind her that four is part of the answer, and that the two remainder dimes have been regropued as pennies, making twenty-seven. At which point she can distribute the twenty-seven pennies, nine to a pile with no leftovers:
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Sometimes working with money, because it's familiar and interesting, makes more sense to kids than other symbols. Showing how what she naturally does to divvy up some money is recorded on paper as she goes through the process may be helpful. When doing problems without money/manipulatives, you can remind her "Remember how you always started with the dollar bills? So on paper you should always start with the biggest place value too."Â
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Tucking the remainders in as above is what was called "short division" when I grew up. It works well up to a divisor of 10. It makes more sense to my kids because the idea of regrouping by tucking in a subscript or superscript numeral beside another is familiar to them from addition, subtraction and multiplication. We only moved to long division with its odd x's and separate bits of multiplication and subtraction after they were absolutely bombproof in their short division work. My kids were pretty young when they learned this, so we hung for a long time with short division -- 6 or 8 months or so. The added complexity of long division makes it that much harder to see exactly what each step is accomplishing.Â
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