They get the same number of toys but not necessarily the same amount spent on them. We try to do three items a year, this year its:
- a dress up trunk to share
- a art kit with learning to draw books for DD1 (one of her requests and the only one I can fulfill)
- play sushi set and bean bags (totally doesn't sound like it goes together but DD2 will love it) that i made for DD2
and I don't know what the third gift will be. There might not be one.
Then a stocking full of "fun stuff" like small pieces of candy, art supplies, books etc.
I spent more on DD1's gift since I can't handmake learning to draw books or color pencils. All of DD2's second gift was handmade by me from felt/fabric I already had on hand.
Im trying to keep things equal number wise between the two since DD1 gets quite upset when she thinks she is getting something and DD2 is getting ignored. She even asks me to give DD2 a drink/snack/whatever if Im getting her one. Shes very much into making sure "HER SISTER" isn't forgotten. Shes the same way with the baby Im carrying and insisted he had to have a stocking this year. I made a few little things and bought him an outfit so DD1 didn't get upset Christmas morning thinking HER baby was being forgotten. Shes a silly (but sweet) kid.