This should really be in health and healing maybe but I think it is more about parenting and I am kinda scared about it all. She is 5 by the way.
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First blood test she had a couple of years ago showed she is IgA deficient, the docs say there isn't an issue with this, even though she suffers constant tummy problems, takes forever to feal with any infection she gets etc.
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She was sick last week with the flu and woke up Friday with a mouthful of blood, I freaked, took her to the GP who did a blood test and it shows clotting factors are borderline, she has to have repeat tests in a couple of weeks. I know that chances are her clotting factors are probably affected by a dietary issue, with her problems with food and diarrhoea etc, chances are she is deficient in Vit K. I am still concerned though.
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The other things she was having issue with before are still plaguing her as well, the noise/pain sensitivity, she is very anxious and unhappy, she still doesn't sleep well, she suffers from pain due to her EDS.
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With all of it combined, every day is really hard work for her, I just want her to be happy and I wish the Docs could find out WTH is going on with her, I hate seeing her like this.
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Thing is though, with for instance the IgA deficiency, the Docs say this shouldn't cause her any problems and yet she suffers from gastro intestinal problems and gastro intestinal problems is something that symptomatic people with low IgA have, so surely it shouldn't just be ruled out of hand?
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I swear she has fibromyalgia and that some of her problems are down to that but they keep telling me that fibro doesn't exist in kids which isn't what I have heard (I also have EDS and fibro).
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Also, she has little behaviour issues, she is good, but there are just some weird behaviours and its hard to explain.
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I just don't know what to do anymore, the Paed is seeing her in January but they don't really seem to listen to me. The GP is brilliant and even though I wish I hadn't put them in school (we gave up home schooling due to health reasons) at least now we have a bunch of school teachers backing us up saying that there is something wrong with her.
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I am just scared that all the odd little test results etc are going to add up to become something big, I dunno. I don't know what to think. I am just worried for her, she is a kid, she should be happy etc but she is not, she is really sad all the time, she hurts all the time, eating causes her pain, when she goes to sleep she gets nightmares, it just seems like every little thing she does has a negative impact on her. I didn't want this for my kids, and she is such a sensitive soul, its definitely not what I wanted for her........... Anyone got any ideas??????? I can hopefully answer more questions, I just feel like I need some ideas to look into just in case they have been missed etc, something to throw at the Docs so that they can consider it. I don't want anything wrong with her but there is obviously something going on, I just want to find out what it is.







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