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I think my oldest nursling has weaned herself!!!!

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I feel the urge to share since I can't really tell many (as they don't know we CLW).  I am pretty sure my dd1 has weaned herself.  She is 3yr4mo.  I have been struggling with the tandem nursing since the arrival of dd2 in March, but stuck with it since I really believe in CLW.  Boy, am I glad I did!  It's nice to know that I was able to be there for dd1 in such a special way until she decided the nursing relationship could end.  It's been two weeks since she nursed.  About a week ago, she told me her imaginary child, Betty, who is five, was too old to have mama.  "Five is too old for mama?" I asked.  "Yes," she said, "and I am too old for mama."  This coupled with TONS of questions as too why BABIES NEED mama (her little sis was exclusively BF up until a few weeks ago when she started solids).  I have mixed feelings about the whole thing.  I am REALLY happy (because I was ready to be back to only one nursling), I am so proud of her for just deciding to be done... but I feel a sense of saddness that she is getting soooooo independent!  (But I am happy about that, too!!!)  This whole motherhood this is really bittersweet!! :)  

 

 

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congratulations, Mama!  What a gift love.gif

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