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My dd is nearly 19 months old and I try to keep some sort of consistency in her life, but her father is extremely inconsistent and the more inconsistency there is, the worse her separation anxiety is getting and, honestly, I'm not sure how to calm it, especially with her at this age.  It's fine when she goes to her Nanna/Poppy's house in the morning when I have to work, but horrible when I'm getting ready for work, at bed time, nap time, and when she's being handed off to the exchange person to go to her father's.  He hasn't picked her up in three weeks, now, and the tantrum she threw this morning while I was getting ready for work made me feel horrible, but there's only one of me and I can't get dressed and shower and such and be in the same room as she is.  Anyone with similar experiences have any suggestions?