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At the same time, I really don't understand this attitude of learning and preparing for medical interventions is bad. Our bradley teacher sped through the class on interventions and all, and I remember her apologizing for bringing negativity to us during our pregnancy.
Ha - then you'd really HATE "Birthing from Within!" I'm reading it now & the author goes on & on & on about how CB classes shouldn't focus on medical issues - they shouldn't spend time with the instructor being the "source" of "facts" that are pushed out to students & how you can't control birth anyway, so you should just do artwork & spend time learning about your own feelings towards birthing. The woman actually thinks birth plans - in an form - in any situation - are a bad idea. I hate hate HATE this book.
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Aaaanyway, in terms of stats & facts on EFM, "The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth" is a good source. But I'm gonna guess you've already read it. Besides, it doesn't not tell you the details on what the read-outs mean. I remember that, I think, HR under 90 is considered a problem, BUT, in the 2.5 years since my DS birth, I read that there's a lot more to it than specific numbers, like the rate at which the HR rebounds post-ctrx is important. There's even an acronym to go along with it. I think it was on the birth professionals forum where I read this.
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In any case, you mention you have suspicions that you were railroaded... I'd advise choosing a team of HCPs you trust more for the next time around. While I liked 2 of the 3 CNMs in my hospital practice when I had DS, I was still highly suspicious of the hospital environment (after all, every single one of the nurses is a total stranger to me! I don't know how much time the MW will actually spend with me, etc.) I had a lot of anxiety about birthing in a hospital. Thankfully it went very well, but I accidentally did all my laboring at home! Had to fight the urge to push on the way.
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This time around, I'm planning an HB. Someone recently wrote that she's also planning an HBAC & feels good knowing that if her HB MW tells her she needs a CS, she's going to know for sure that she really does need that CS. I realized I feel the exact same way and it is a huge, huge relief!! I hadn't realized truly how great it is to trust my HCP & not feel the need to get educated on every single detail so I'm ready to second-guess her.
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Of course, I'm not saying ignorance is bliss! Just saying, I'm drawing the line between what I think was good CB prep for me, and what goes into midwifery-school-education that I don't feel is necessary!
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I don't think I'll ever truly be able to get up to speed on all the sorts of knowledge my MW has - so I have to trust her to a certain degree. This pregnancy, I've spent a lot less time worrying about all the medical details (hence my decision to read something different like "Birthing from Within" - Blech, hopefully the next book will be better.)
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I'm also not saying that means everyone should plan an HB! Just saying you should chose your HCPs wisely so you really truly feel you can trust them.