My first labor I had pitocin. I was having prodromal labor and was told I was in labor, but that it had "stalled" when in fact I was just not yet in active labor.
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I was told pitocin causes contractions just like normal labor (in my case, this was a complete lie, NONE of my subsequent non-pitocin labors have ever been as painful as that, not even during transition).
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I got an epidural a few hours in, it was misery. Intense contractions with no real break in between to get relief.
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I too was worried during my second pregnancy that I would not be able to cope with labor. After all, the nurses had told me pit contractions were just like regular labor... and a nurse wouldn't outright LIE to me about that, would they?
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Well, with my second baby I again had prodromal "stop-and-start" labor for a couple weeks before active labor began. When active labor started, I knew this was it because when I tried lying down on my left side as per the doctor's instructions, OW OW OW do not want. Sitting up, I was fine. Walking around, I was fine. Contractions were mild, and in between I could talk, joke, etc.
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We got to the hospital when I was about 5 CM. So, I figured I had several more hours to go. Well, as soon as they admitted me and put me in the LDR room, I hit transition. 5-10cm in 30 minutes. It was super intense, and I just could. not. do. it. anymore. I was sure I had hours and hours left to go, I asked for something to help with the pain. My fears had come true, I couldn't handle labor. It was too much for me.
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Well thankfully my nurse was a smart lady and decided to check me. As soon as she said I was complete, the "I can't do it" feeling went away. I realized I HAD done it! The pushing urge hit a minute later, and DD was out within a few minutes after that.
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That labor was an eye-opener for me. It was fast and intense, but it was NOTHING like pit labor. None of my subsequent labors have had any pitocin involved, and I have never felt any urge to ask for drugs either. When labor starts to get overwhelming for me, it always means it's almost over.