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Certainly, having a partner who is opposed to home birth can make things very difficult. My dh was opposed to home birth. We had compromised on the birthing center, although I have never understood why anyone thinks that's any safer than a home birth. By the time I had gotten pg, we had moved and there weren't any birthing centers. That's why I ended up with a hospital birth with ds2. While my hospital birth wasn't horrible or traumatic, I have always regretted that I didn't push more with my dh for a home birth.

 

I'm not sure that it's easier to switch from home to hospital birth than the other way. If you live in an area where MWs can't legally attend home births and/or doctors don't respect that choice, you may have a very hard time finding a hospital HCP who will take you on as a patient late in the game. Even if you can find someone, they are more likely to be disrespectful to you as a person, imo. The home birth MWs I have talked to (ok, only 3) have stipulations for taking women late in their pregnancies. Usually, they just charge a little more.

post #22 of 22
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I think we are ready to jump on board!!!

 

I spoke on the phone to two clients of the midwife we are considering, and she sounds like a great midwife, confident, calm, equipped and knowledgeable about birth and passionate about HBAC. I plan to meet with another midwife this week, have given up on getting in touch with the other one I've been calling, and am emailing with another one. We want to do due diligence but do have fewer options with HBAC in my state and being later in pregnancy.

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