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My DD Jenna will be 4 in June, and I also have a 20 month old son. DH and I have always said our kids would be homeschooled or go to a good private school, no public school.

When Jenna was 2 she started in the mother's day out/preschool program at our church one day a week - partly because she loved being around other children her age, and partly to give me a little time with her new baby brother one on one (and time to run errands without both of them in tow!). She LOVED it! This schoole year she is going two days a week, again to a church run preschool (we moved, so it's not the same one). She still LOVES it and generally gets really excited when she realizes it's a "preschool day". I had to switch to a new preschool for this coming fall in order to keep her in at only 2 days a week - her current preschool didn't offer a 4 year old class less than 3 or 5 days a week, and I just felt that was too much. She seems quite happy with twice a week and it works well for me, too. Noah will also be going twice a week to that preschool in the fall.

I have only skimmed the surface of homeshooling - I haven't really delved into serious research about it. I always thought "I've got plenty of time to think about that later!" but I'm realizing now that Jenna is going to be ready for kindergarten before I know it and I better start making a real plan now.

We can't afford a private school - it's just not realistic on our budget. I have serious concerns about public school, especially since I have heard that the Alabama public school system is one of the worst in the country. I really don't know how to go about judging that for myself, though! How do you know if a public school is good or not?:

The thought of homeschooling scares me, I admit - not only because I'm just not sure I can do it well, but also because Jenna loves preschool so much that I'm afraid she won't like homeschooling and will miss the school environment she is used to! On the other hand, in kindergarten she certainly won't have the same environment - I'm sure her class will be much larger than 13 children and it will be 5 days a week.

We are active in our church so she has lots of interaction with other kids her age there.

Have any of you started homeschooling children who had previously been in a more traditional school setting and who really enjoyed that school? I'm sorry this is kind of rambling, I'm just pretty confused about it all and feel like I'm kind of floundering around right now...
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Hi Diddiemama!

I have a 3 y/o dd and a 21 m/o ds. Dd hasn't yet been to any preschool per se, and I don't plan on sending her, *but*...

I sometimes feel like I might as well! Between her and her brother, we have 2 storytimes, 2 dance/tumble classes, Sunday school, (all of which dd LOVES) and after adding in errands and social lives, we usually only have 2-3 days a week where we don't go see another small child! And we absolutely plan on HS!

We couldn't afford private school either, and the more I learn about HS, the more I'm glad we can't! If we could have, I don't think I could have convinced Dh of all the reasons why I want HS for our children. (I don't even think we could currently afford a preschool we would like sending her to.) I would personally view her preschool experience as any other enrichment activity you might engage in as a HSing family. Anytime you're all happy with a situation and she's learning and loving it, I'd say you're doing really well!

And as her parents, I don't think you guys have to 'lock in' to one style or another at this early age. You will *always* be the ones there to make these choices for them. Right now preschool is working for your family. That might change next month or next year, or not. In the meantime, you'll be able to really research what type of HSing appeals to you and yours!

lizzie
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School is VERY different from preschool and kindergarten. Just because she loves those, doesn't mean that she will thrive in school. That was exactly the case with me -- I loved, loved, loved preschool and kindergarten. But after that it was all downhill.
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Preschool and school are as different as night and day.

My children absolutely loved their co-op preschool. After they started school, I always said I wished that the preschool could have just continued on and on and on.

We've done the great little public school thing, and also the great little private school thing. Done it to death! Homeschooling, in our experience, is superior to both.

A year and a half ago, we decided to give our children complete choice over their schooling: They could go to school, public or private, they could homeschool, unschool - whatever. We would support them in their choices. Our son (thankfully - because our great little artsy, creative private school was squashing him day by day) to homeschool. Our daughter decided to stay in school. She is extraordinarily social, popular, a good student - all that stuff. However, as we've gotten further and further into our homeschooling life, the deficiencies inherent in even a wonderful little private school compared to a wonderful homeschooling experience have become woefully apparent.

I have found myself day after day asking my daughter to stop whatever cool, creative project she was doing so that she could finish her spelling homework, or read some book she has no interest in, or write a 20 sentence paper on China (in 2nd grade!). It seemed ludicrous to me! And frustrating! Finally, a few weeks ago, she decided to start homeschooling. Yay!

After the first couple of weeks of adjusting to being at home so much - she is thriving! I was worried that she would miss being with all her little friends day after day - but she hasn't. She calls them on the phone, and has had a couple of playdates with them. She has also made some new friends in our homeschooling group - so so far anyway, she doesn't feel deprived in the social area.

I was also unsure of my abilities to homeschool. I've posted in the past our long journey back and forth from school to homeschool. Looking back, I wished I'd never even put them in Kindergarten. Preschool - I'd do again in a minute. Kindergaten, no way.

And now - for the next step in our journey...we have always been relaxed homeschoolers, and are now quickly becoming unschoolers!

Peace,
Laura
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