I will reach the 42-week mark on Tuesday. My midwife said we can talk about what to do at my Tuesday appointment, including if I want to schedule an ultrasound. It's up to me. She's not pushy about things like this. But if I make it to the Tuesday appointment, I would like to have done some thinking and research first.
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First of all, I totally believe that a baby will come when a baby is ready. An unnecessary induction with my first is what lead me to a home birth this time around and one of my requirements of a health care provider was that I would not be forced to induce and would not be put on a deadline to give birth. Fortunately, I found one.
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So having an ultrasound seems to contradict this belief. If I truly believe that a baby is born when he or she is ready to be born, then why am I checking to make sure everything is okay?
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If the answer to that question is: "What's the harm? Just go ahead and make sure the baby is okay. If nothing else, it will be reassuring." then my second question is: What is the likelihood of a false test result? What are they testing anyway? Who is interpreting these test results? I don't want a "fluid looks low. You should have this baby today" response from a doctor when the doctor's definition of low fluid is different than someone more naturally minded.
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What are my options if the test indicates that things are not looking well? Hospital induction? Because I have a serious issue with consenting to a hospital induction unless I was completely and 100 percent convinced that it was totally and absolutely necessary. I don't even feel comfortable doing natural induction methods because I just believe that a baby will come when a baby is ready.
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Anyone who can offer some advice, personal experience or point me in the right direction -- I would appreciate it! I don't want to find myself at this Tuesday appointment and making a decision without thoroughly thinking it through.
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(P.S. I'm in Ohio by the way, if that makes any difference. I've read that some states won't let midwives deliver you after 42 weeks, but I haven't found anything that says Ohio is one of those states.)













