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I thought maybe we could use a separate spot for us to talk about our upcoming appointments, how they go, who we are seeing, and post u/s pics, etc!

 

AFM - I'm meeting with a hb midwife next Sunday, the 9th.  I also have a prenatal scheduled with a different mw on the 13th, so we'll see if I keep it.  Depends which one I like better!

 

Other than that, nothing yet.  Anyone else?

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Have my Cnm Appt in two weeks. They'll probably order a dating u/s as I have very long and irregular cycles but due to dh's work schedule I'm not sure how soon I'll be able to have that done. In my last two pregnancies I've had multiple u/s and office visits at this point, so I'm praying that everything is ok with the little olive!
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I have my first u/s at 7 weeks on the 7th, and my first m/w appt on the 19th at 8.5 weeks.

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Well I have my first apt. on the 4th at 7 weeks, 4 days. At this time, they should be doing my first u/s. I am curious though...how do you ladies get ultrasounds so early on? This is my third pregnancy and with my son, I didn't get an ultrasound until 16 weeks. My daughter's wasn't until 19 weeks but I had a lot of u/s with her due to severe complications from then on. This time around, the er dr told me I was very high risk and to get into my ob asap and get an u/s at 5 weeks. I couldn't speak with my ob but the nurse told me they can't do ultrasounds at 5 weeks, which I know is bs and that "she" didn't see me as high risk based on what I was telling her. Mind you, I changed obs from my last pregnancy so they don't know the complications I had from my daughter yet. I have plans to speak with my dr though because the nurse was very rude to me and I have had nothing but problems since that day. She better just hope I don't miscarry because she refused to do her job and see me when the er dr said to. Good luck to all you others
post #5 of 340

My first appointment is the 6th, I'll be 9w2d. I know I'll have blood taken and will get an u/s.

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Well I have my first apt. on the 4th at 7 weeks, 4 days. At this time, they should be doing my first u/s. I am curious though...how do you ladies get ultrasounds so early on? This is my third pregnancy and with my son, I didn't get an ultrasound until 16 weeks. My daughter's wasn't until 19 weeks but I had a lot of u/s with her due to severe complications from then on. This time around, the er dr told me I was very high risk and to get into my ob asap and get an u/s at 5 weeks. I couldn't speak with my ob but the nurse told me they can't do ultrasounds at 5 weeks, which I know is bs and that "she" didn't see me as high risk based on what I was telling her. Mind you, I changed obs from my last pregnancy so they don't know the complications I had from my daughter yet. I have plans to speak with my dr though because the nurse was very rude to me and I have had nothing but problems since that day. She better just hope I don't miscarry because she refused to do her job and see me when the er dr said to. Good luck to all you others


Hmm, lots of women go in for dating u/s that early.  I'm not sure why they wouldn't do one.  Though, at 5 weeks it just may have been too early to see much so they didn't want to cause you worry.  Strange though, very strange.  hug.gif

 

I forgot to put in my OP that I'll be 8w6d when I see the mw next Sunday.  Still...I'm nervous I don't have a mw booked yet.  Anyone else still searching for a provider?

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I interviewed and "chose" a MW at 5 weeks, but our first prenatal appt is Jan 17th.  I'll be 12w2w, and hoping we can hear the heartbeat via doppler at that time.  I'm not having an early u/s.  I was charting, so I am positive about my dates.  It does feel kind of weird not to be taking a peek to check on the baby.  I had an u/s at 8w with DS, and it helped it feel real.  Sometimes I catch myself thinking "what if the baby died last week and I don't even know it?"  But I guess that could happen whether or not I'd had an u/s.  Anyway, I'm really looking forward to hearing a heartbeat and having some other sign that there really is a baby other than just bloat and fatigue!!

 

Can't wait to hear all the appt updates next week :)

 

Happy New Year!  It's the year of our BABIES!!!

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I had my first appt a couple weeks ago, but we just did paperwork and talk.  I have my first real appt on January 14th to hear the heartbeat.  I will be exactly 11 weeks that day.  I'm really hoping we will hear the heartbeat.  If not I'll have to wait 2 weeks because my midwife will be on vacation.

 

What are the odds of us hearing the heartbeat with a Doppler at 11 weeks, 0 days?  I am tall and thin if that matters.

 

Bree

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  Sometimes I catch myself thinking "what if the baby died last week and I don't even know it?"  But I guess that could happen whether or not I'd had an u/s.  Anyway, I'm really looking forward to hearing a heartbeat and having some other sign that there really is a baby other than just bloat and fatigue!!

 

Happy New Year!  It's the year of our BABIES!!!



Oh, CK, I think the SAME THING.  But you're 100% right.  Having an u/s won't prevent it from happening or tell you if it's going to happen.  I'm just trying to do my best to stay positive and just have faith that my body and my baby are ok!

 

Yay for it being Our Year!  Yay!

 

Bree - I think that's early, I hear 12 weeks is about when you would start to be able to hear it.  But you never know!  Good luck!!

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I forgot to put in my OP that I'll be 8w6d when I see the mw next Sunday.  Still...I'm nervous I don't have a mw booked yet.  Anyone else still searching for a provider?



I have booked with 2 OBs, just in case, but I don't see either till end of January, when I'll be 12 weeks-ish.  I'm ok with that because I dislike doctors anyway but have to go this route due to circumstances.  I'm pretty sure I'll go with the first one, but I have a second one booked a week later in case I don't like the first!  I'm so picky and I've got to have a good feeling about them, and I have a long list of things I want done and not done during my section!  Last pregnancy, I didn't see the first OB until 16 weeks, and didn't like him, so found another and saw him for the first time at 20 weeks and decided he was the one.  I'm probably every OB's nightmare!

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I don't have my first appointment until the 21st, and I think it's just for paperwork and blood work. I'll be 9 weeks:( I hate army clinics! I really hope I can convince them to doing an ultrasound though.

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Soontobe, I first heard DS's heartbeat with a doppler at work at 11w3d.  I tried again a few days later and couldn't find it and it freaked me out, so I think it's hit or miss, but possible that early.

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Mommaof2angels  - I had an early ultrasound at 6.3 weeks (I was in a fertility program and it's standard) and they saw an empty sac.  But, everything was fine a week later.  I really wish we had waited until 7 weeks for the first.  So, maybe your doc's office was just trying to prevent unnecessary worry in case things didn't look quite right?  5 weeks is pretty early.  I hope your future visits with them go more smoothly!  ((hug))

 

Copper - I worry about that same thing as you and Baby_Cakes!  I almost want to buy a doppler so I can check in once a week at home...but I don't know if that's wise.  I don't want to subject myself to a freakout.  And of course, there is nothing you can do if that does happen...

 

Bree - I think it's totally possible to hear the hb at 11 weeks!  My mw got mine on the doppler last week, at 9.1 weeks.  She said that there was a good chance she couldn't get it, though, and that my uterus was tipped slightly which might make it harder.  So I think everyone is different.

 

AFM - I had my first meeting with the mw last week.  It went well--heard the heartbeat!  This is a "practice" that I go to with both mw's and ob's.  I'll see an OB at almost 12 weeks (the 14th) and then will try to see only mw's after that.  I really like the convenience of the office...right next door to my work!!

 

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Thanks ladies.  I guess I will hope to hear the heartbeat, but not freak out if I don't.  Sounds like there is no real reason to be alarmed if I don't hear it.  I just hope my little nugget is doing well and I can't wait to hear him/her in there!!!!

 

Bree

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My first appointment is on Jan. 11. I will be 8 weeks 4 days . I think they plan on doing an ultrasound because I was spotting at five weeks. With my daughter I didn't get an US until 19 weeks, but I am actually excited to get an early one done this time.

 

Babycakes- I haven't chosen a provider yet either. The OB practice where I had my daughter is closed now so I am not sure what I am going to do. The place where I have my first appointment is not the practice I want to use the entire time.

 

SoonToBe- I think I heard my DD's HB early, like before 9 weeks. I was a little chunky then too. 

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I still don't have a provider and I am 10 weeks!

 

I am determined to have a homeirth, but my location in Illinois doesn't exactly have an abundant supply of midwives, mainly due to the hostile legal environment in the state. I have hit so many dead ends, but finally have a number of a hb midwife an hour away. I am trying to decide if I should call her on a Sunday or wait until tomorrow :)

 

I had my son at a hospital 3.5 yrs ago because I lived in a tiny apt with a bunch of other people and didn't want to subject them to my birth (they were not friendly to the idea), and then with my daughter 1.5 years ago I had a hb planned until 30 weeks when my midwife called to inform me that she was quitting her practice. She gave me the number of the midwife that I will be calling in the next day or so (although I had lost it since then and had to go through crazy underground searching to get it again!) but this midwife never called me back, even after I tried many times. So I am nervous about being able to get in contact with her this time. But it is looking like she is my only option.

 

I just want a care provider. Why does Illinois have to be so lame with their treatment of midwives???

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Thanks ladies for the possible explanations about why my dr's office wouldn't do an ultrasound at 5 weeks. I'm just really nervous. But I know if they would have done one then and nothing turned up in the sac, I would have been an even bigger nervous wreck. I just really hope they go ahead and do one on Tuesday.

Bree- if it helps, with my son, they checked it at 11 weeks and couldn't hear it. Then, the next week, they heard it strong and clear. With my daughter however, we heard the heart beat at 9 weeks. So there is hope! Good luck! I remember being scared to death when they told me, with my son, that if the hb wasn't detected at 12 weeks, the dr would have to do an ultrasound to make sure the baby wasn't dead. It's nerve wracking smile.gif
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I have my first u/s tomorrow morning. Hoping to see a strong HB.

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I had my first apt last wednesday and I was 8w6d. I got a dating ultrasound. The heartbeat was 184 bpm, so pretty strong! I cried like a baby the whole time! I'm just going to a local hospital and I'll be working with 4 midwives. I liked the one I met on wednesday,  she was really cool. Good luck with all of your apts!

 

 

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I just took a picture of the picture, so its kinda weird, but that's my squirt! jumpers.gif

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Riley - Wow, just look at that beautiful baby!! joy.gif

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