Wacky cycle-someone help me figure this out, please

[emski4379]

I stopped temping a couple of months ago. I needed a break and it was making me a bit crazy. I sort of new when I'd be Oing, so just kept it in mind. My last cycle started Nov 13. I was supposed to get AF Dec 13, but didn't. I got BFNs for 2 weeks. I tested again on Dec 31, and BFN. Before I went to bed after NYE, I went to the bathroom and my underwear had blood on them (not just spotting, but enough that I have to soak them). I thought that AF was finally here, so I put on a pad. The next morning, I wake up, and nothing! No AF until now. Still no AF. This is VERY unusual for me.

I decided to take a FRER test yesterday and thought I saw a line, but wasn't sure. Took another today, and same thing. Oh I also started temping again on Jan 1. My temps have been going up.

So, what do you think? Was that implantation? What would be going on with my cycle?

[emski4379]

Someone? Anyone? I would really love to hear some opinions, please. :D

[ValH]

Without knowing when you O'ed, either by temps or OPKs, I would think it could be from a lot of things.  For example, you could have just O'ed really late, and that could be why you haven't started yet and you'll start sometime soon.  Or, you could have O'ed very late and gotten pregnant, and that could have been implantation.  Or you could have some other medical issue, like a cyst or hormone issues. 

If I were you, I would buy a digital test that will say "pregnant" or "not pregnant" so that there will be no squinting at possible lines.  If it says pregnant, fantastic.  If it doesn't, I'd call for an appointment with my ob/gyn to see what the heck is going on. 

I wish you the best of luck!!  Sorry I didn't have any real answers for you, but I hope you find the answers soon. 

[mariacm]

I agree with ValH.  The dig preg test will cut out any possibility of misreading the other test.  And if it's neg, keep temping (I'd make up a chart with what you have so far from this cycle to have it on paper and make it easier to analyze) and go see your dr/midwife.

[emski4379]

I'm going to the OB tomorrow to figure out what is going on. Thanks for the advice!