I'm rh- and my husband is rh+. I did get the rhogam with my first miscarriage, and with my daughters pregnancy. my second m/c was so early, no real fetal blood to react to. My daughter turned out to be rh+ so this is the exact situation where I could be sensitized. I was very relieved with this pregnancy when my blood work showed that I had not been sensitized during my pregnancies. I will absolutely be taking the shots again with this one.
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I think a good place to start with educating yourself is to check on the baby's dads rh status. If he is rh negative too, then there is no need for it. Or if this is going to be your last baby and you don't have to worry about it because the risks of sensitization are for the next baby- not the one you are pregnant with now.
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If you did become sensitized, the risk is that if the next baby is rh+ is hemolytic disease of the newborn. it can be mild or severe, It could be totally ok, or it could be fatal. In my mind, the risk of taking a shot that has been common practice since the 70s was less risky than the things that could happen to my baby if there was a severe reaction- miscarriage, baby loss, but even in the mild/moderate cases, it still means being consitered a 'high risk' pregnancy, separation and hospitalization for treatment of jaundice, blood work, blood transfusions.
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I weighed the potential risks of the shot vs. the potential risk of sensitization, and that's what I came up with for me. It's hard when you feel like your dr is pushing things on you without educating. I was lucky that I trusted my midwife, and she wouldn't even say it was ok to use a capsicum roll-on for my sore back, exercises caution with flu shots and the other ones, but does recommend the rhogam. Good luck with your decision!Â
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here's a link about HDN. I like this one becuase it just goes over the medical aspects of it- doesn't say take the shot or don't.