I just bought a few wool diaper wraps on etsy, and I have a cart full of natural colored organic tops in another window that I have yet to finalize (but I really should!). I know that I don't want ANYTHING overtly gendered, regardless of if we're finding out the gender or not. If I have a girl, I'll be knitting all of the "girly" stuff, but otherwise I basically just want yellow, orange and cream colored clothes (then knitted things can be the fun colors). If I have a boy, same thing with the natural colored clothes and fun colored knitted things. I'm not big on words on babies clothing, or with super gendered frilly/masculine items, so most of the things I'm buying are basic tops, cloth diapers and books, which can work for a boy or a girl.
I have almost 2 grocery bags full of baby clothes I've already knitted, but none of the ends are woven in, and nothing is "finished". It's my way of being superstitious :)