So who's doing what and when?
Dh and I had decided that this would be our last baby, yet he told me the other day that he doesn't want to get a vasectomy for a while because it's so "permanent". So even though I didn't want to mess with hormones at all, I think I'm going to get the Mirena IUD. I thought that if I had it for a year, we could then revisit the issue of whether or not we want any more kids, and then if the answer is no, he can get snipped at that point.
The only thing is, I don't know if I should try to buy myself more time since I'm breastfeeding, or if that's a recipe for disaster? With my first, she breastfed until she was 2 1/2 and I didn't get my first period until she was 18 mo. old. With my second, he breastfed until he was 7 mo old and I got my period two months later. I'm afraid that if I chose to do nothing for 6 months or so, it'll really put a stress on our sex life because we'll always be worrying "what if?"
So what's your strategy and why?