Hi Ceccy, I'm sorry about the bad news.
Check out this website: http://www.gettingpregnant.co.uk/premature_ovarian_failure.html
It seems to discuss what your options are with premature menopause (or premature ovarian failure), if that is what you ultimately end up being diagnosed with. Hopefully, the doctor can either try hormonal supplementation or, probably a better bet if possible, you go right into in-vitro fertilization. I don't know how expensive it is in Germany but it may be one of the best options for you.
As for your DH, don't be too hard on him. This is probably very stressful for him as well. I don't know anything about your dynamics with your DH but are you guys really consumed with this? If so, your DH may just be trying to find a way to escape from the stress. Personally, I know my DH is stressed and I am as well but we really just try to not think about it too much day to day and enjoy life as much as we can. I always think that until I have a child, I have some form of freedom to go on vacation without worrying, etc. Maybe taking your mind off of it a bit will help. Please try that because then, hopefully, your DH will start taking you to your appointments again. Also, if you really want him there, you should let him know that it would mean a lot to you if he would join you. I find that my DH doesn't always know when things really matter to me. If I ask him to do something for me, he will bend over backwards to get it done. If I don't ask, he doesn't know, and then I end up stewing because I thought he SHOULD know how important it is to me. haha luckily, I'm starting to kick the habit of not saying something!
LittleEricJenn, I can't wait until spring time! The cold weather and spending all my time indoors is really grating on my last nerves. haha and how do I get the vitamin D naturally, if I can't stand outside and absorb the sun?
Originally Posted by Ceccy
@All...Met with my RE yesterday.After a very lengthy discussion, she took some blood for test...though i was told to come back on Friday Morning for the result. and then she dropped a line...she said i am sorry to tell you that if it happens to be Pre-mature menupause;sorry theres no treatment for that (HOW TRUE IS THAT???) and remember i told you my gyno said its called premature menupause..... I hope and pray miracle happens! DH didnot drive me there, i had to go by public transport...very unlike him...Uhmmmmm God have mercy on me... Peepzzz please help me do your findings and let me know if there are drugs to be used.(All this German Doctors ,at times you really have to remind them of some stuffs) I am seriously feeling like the whole world is on me!!! Help mi ass!!!