i'm feeling ambivalent about having my 20 week ultrasound, scheduled for the 19th.
what i know is that the purpose is to check the heart chambers, and make sure all the parts are where they are supposed to be ;) and, of course, if you want to know, boy or girl.
dh and i don't want to know boy or girl.
i'm not sure why i am feeling a bit like declining this u/s, so i'm looking for input from you all: was it important for you to have it? and why? or why not? also, is there something i'm missing about the purpose of doing it in the first place? maybe talking it through will help me uncover my hesitancy.
fwiw, i did have an u/s at 14 weeks, just to rule out twins. it was a quick peek; i did see a baby that looked well (good size, head, arms, legs), so i don't have that urge to "see" the baby, or to make sure that there's something "actually" in there ;)
thanks for your thoughts, mamas!