I'm another mama with enormous breasts. :( I'm about a 38H in my wireless nursing bras right now, but I do have an underwire non-nursing bra in a 40F that I can wear. I do go braless at home on a fairly regular basis, but I'm not sure I could go braless in public.
For those with large breasts, can you recommend any tank tops or camisoles that offer a little bit of support and/or coverage that do NOT have teeny tiny puny little straps?? I've bought cotton tanks from Old Navy before that have the built in "shelf" bra, and the spaghetti straps disintegrate before the tanks themselves wear out. If I could find some comfortable tanks with straps that don't dig into my shoulders, I might consider trying this. I do have two GlamourMom nursing tanks in the larger cup sizes, but I don't like them. The shoulder straps are wider than your average tank, but I think they're uncomfortable to put on, uncomfortable to wear, and frankly the white one is completely see-through.