DS is almost four and has AS and SPD. He has recently started spitting a lot. And he hardly seems aware of it. It's usually when he's stressed. He does is several times in a row, makes a t-t-t-t-t sound with little bits of spit coming out. He really seems unaware and seems to feel he is not spitting when he does it. I will say he does sometimes spit knowingly, obviously as he aims etc. But when this "little spitting" (for lack of better phrasing) happens I am not sure how to handle it. I do not want him spitting. I also don't want to be punishing/ chastising him for something he is not aware of and can't control very well.
Anyone have any experience here or know how to really tell if he's doing this on purpose or stimming? And if it is some sort of stim is there any way to help him find something else to soothe himself ? Even if it was not spitting, has anyone dealt with a stim that was an undesirable behavior?
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