My ex told my children something very private and very true to my children, something that I wanted to tell them
when they were old enough to understand the details without misconstrueing the information.
I have finally calmed down about it, but I wonder where he will stop. Will he continue telling the children things that I have told him when we were engaged or married? Information that I would share with a soon to be husband. Will he tell them other things, things I can't even think of right now, that will perhaps damage their perceptions about me? Of course I know the answer to that.
He actually sat them down at the computer and searched the info on google, to prove it.
When they got in the van with me, my other child who doesn't go with them, was screaming at them "Liar's, he made that up".
Anyway, it was private, the line was crossed, and this definately was not told to them to help them or make their life better. It was told to them to hurt me, to break privacy, to let me know that he can do as he pleases. My kids are 10, 10 and 14. It would have been better for them to get this info when they were much older.
Felt like parental alienation.
Edited by Jyotsna - 1/11/11 at 9:09pm