I am wondering if I should look more presentable since I am the only woman he gets for the rest of his life.
I have 3 kids 7,5, and 8 months. My stay at home outfit is: black loose sweatpants, and any old loose t shirt that shrunk too small for DH or someone gave me from a trip (I know -Yuck, but sooo comfy).
Im currently 10 pounds over (still from baby). Still though, I manage to keep wearing this outfit even after I loose my baby weight from each kid. I just dont see the point in wearing clothes that create sensory problems when I wont be going out.
Sometimes even when I get home from running errand I slap this disgusting outfit back on. More than most of the time, I even wear it out. I just run in and out of somewhere and why bother? Honestly, I dont worry ever about what anyone thinks.
It occured to me recently that I maybe I should, but just for DH.
DH has never really cared about me glamming up. In fact if I put on lipstick, he says it's for clowns.
He doesnt care either way if I put on make up or dress up.
He DOES think that at night I should want to be wearing very sexy things for him- but that's another thread. The other thing is; he wanted to be with me way back then because of my looks. So, he isnt one of those completely unshallow men, and of course I know that is an initial attraction for many people.
So- what's your outfit, and opinion on this?
How do you greet him in your little mom outfit?
Me, in my sweatpants with tomato sauce handprints (cuz I dont wear an apron- maybe I should be like June Cleaver)
my shirt with puke stains and olive oil, well I just quickly glance up from what I'm doing, tell him his plate is on the stove, he comes toward me, we give a quick kiss (usually initiated by him, just as a habit), and I continue on to my work of the hour while telling him anything that went on that day I think he'd want to hear.
Do you make a bigger deal when he comes home?
I think I should be a little more cheerful especially since Im full of crumbs and my hair is in a crooked bedraggled ponytail.
Gosh Im gross. BTW I am laughing my a$$ off while I type this. Im wondering what all of you are wearing right now.