Well certain things are becoming more clear to me as I just walk the path of salvation. I don't think I'm supposed to homeschool my kids anymore, where I used to really want to do that. But my own thing that I'm struggling to figure out is what I am supposed to do with these interests. So far I think I've been along the lines of what lilyka said... where I see something in my personality or interests and pursue it, and it's not having results (some of the time they are) that are consistent with the fruits of righteousness. So, ... I feel like the Lord put these things into my person for a reason. It definitely is something that sets me apart so it seems like He would put it there so He could use it.
As to a calling for something more outside myself... I'm curious to know yalls opinions on that too. As in jobs, or starting a bussiness, or leading studies. I know it's all just obeying the Holy Spirit when He speaks to us... I guess I just feel off track. Maybe I should fast