I'm sure that baby daddy will want to circ, but since he's not involved at the moment, and I'm not planning on having him at the birth anyway, I'm just doing whatever I feel like. Chances are pretty good that once he's over a few days, it won't be an issue anyway. We'll see what happens I guess. I'm not planning on having the conversation with him at all. I had my oldest circ'd and I wish I could go back and not have it done at all. I've apologized to him for it and told him that I didn't know better and 12 years ago it was what everyone was doing. I didn't really understand that I could say no. :(
Ladies that are dealing with opposition on the circ issue, I just want to say that I'm so sorry you're having to deal with that added stress and pressure. I hope that you are able to come to a good resolution with your partners.