my little guy was born sleeping at 39 weeks 1/12 - Page 2

[scarletjane]

oh mama, i am so sorry. That is just heartbreaking. I know you must be in shock.  That is so hard to accept.  I do know some of what you are feeling. I lost my daughter at 41 weeks one year ago. The pain is gut-wrenching, i know.  Please think of posting in the pregnancy and birth loss forum. you will find so much support there. and everyone in there would love to see photos of your little Gunnar. I'm sure he is beautiful.  you can also PM me if you need anything at all. You will wonder if you can make it through this. You can. It isn't easy, though.

Please know i'm thinking of you today.

[OvenSeeksBun]

Originally Posted by Beverly 

Oh, I am so, so sorry, mama.  What heartbreak.  I have no words.

Please be gentle with yourself and take advantage in every source of support you can find.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

This exactly 
 

[MPsSweetie]

I am so incredibly sorry, my heart is breaking for you.  You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers...

:hug

[quiero a mi bebe]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. There is nothing worse!

[dancingnancy97]

I am so sorry.  I know it's not much right now, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Ornery]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. 

There is a support group for those who have lost children called Compassionate Friends and they helped me immensely.  Online support is wonderful but I needed IRL help and they were there for me.

Again, I'm sending prayers for you and sweet Gunnar.

[justduckyangie]

so very, very sorry for your loss. you are in my thoughts.

[soccerchic21]

My heart is aching for you. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know healing will come in time but just take now to be sad and mourn your baby. 

[SumnerRain]

I am so very sorry for your loss mama.  You are in my thoughts.

[texmati]

Just thinking of you today mama.

[MamaMonica]

I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you, mama.

[Pirogi]

My heart aches for you, Jenn.  Be gentle with yourself.

  Gunnar James

[StellaNuova]

Oh Mama, I am so, so very sorry...I wish I was more that I could say to help...sending hugs your way....

[Marisgirl]

I am positive that nothing that I say can take the pain away, so I will just say that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

[SomethingAnonymous]

I agree, if you feel like you want to share pictures you should.

[Breathless Wonder]

I am so sorry.

[simedong]

Dear Vulnerable,

I am so so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your son. I lost my son to stillbirth in May of last year. He was born sleeping at 34.5 weeks.

I am a member of Dailystrength.org. Dailystrength has support groups online for parents who have experienced a stillbirth. There are also groups that support women TTC after stillbirth, and beyond. 

I cannot recommend this site enough. The women on there are extremely supportive, and there are many women who post pictures of their angels on there. Here is the link to the stillbirth support group: http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Stillbirth/support-group

I don't think I would have made it through the last eight months without all of the support I've received from the women on that site.

Please know that there was nothing you could have done to save your son, and none of what happened was your fault.

The pain of losing your child this way is agonizing. There are no real explanations or words that will give you comfort. Just know that there are other women out there who have experienced, and are experiencing the same thoughts and feelings as you. The pain and agony of losing your child to Stillbirth is so totally devastating. Only those who have experienced the same pain can truly understand what you're going through.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs, Sam.