I finally seem to have things on a working level with MIL. One thing that is still there I have been avoiding is the name thing. She wants DS to call her Mom-mom.
I'm not comfortable about this for many reasons, I know that it is common in many families, but today was a perfect example as to WHY I'm not comfortable.
She was playing with DS and when I 'wasn't' looking (but I'm always looking) she would call her self 'Mom' and then when I was looking she would say Mom-mom.
Also I got a great glare for saying DS calls me Ma Ma (as if I was taking her name)
DS is only 15 months...He doesn't call her anything. I think so far we've been hoping to just wait until he picks a name for her...but after seeing her...um sneakiness today I don't know if I should let it go or have Dh talk to her.
I know it won't go well...but the door is open for conversation now.
I don't know what would you do? should I just stick with the original plan?