I'm trying to figure out when the heck I conceived. I used just 2 OPKs this month for the very first time ever. I'm a total OPK novice.
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I wasn't temping. I kept very detailed handwritten notes on all other fertility symptoms.
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I took an OPK test on the evenings of Jan. 5th, and Jan. 6th. They were both very negative. I got my BFP on Jan 17th.
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Looking back on my notes, the 5th & the 6th also just happen to be the days chock full of fertility symptoms. On the 4th, I found my cervix had suddenly moved forward, after being nearly impossible to reach 24 hours before. Everything "down there" was also very, very soft, swollen, and slippery (on Jan 5th & 6th), but hadn't been on the 3rd or 4th. Everything remained that way until Jan 8th when the swelling & slipperiness disappeared, & my cervix was firming up.
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Also, I got my BFP on exactly 12DPO with all three of my last babies. If I was 12DPO when I got my BFP last night, then I would have conceived on Jan 6th. But I'd had those 2 neg. OPKs on the 5th and the 6th, so I couldn't have conceived on the 6th, right?
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Could I have ovulated ON Jan 5th even though the OPK was neg the 5th & 6th?
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We BD'd on Jan. 1st, 5th, and 7th. I only saw a smidge of EWCM way back on Jan 3rd. After that, I only had cloudy-white & semi-stretchy CM until the 9th when my cervix was firmly closed & I had no CM.
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Geez I hope this isn't annoyingly confusing. I've read it over & over hoping that it's clear! I'm not very good at being succinct. I do appreciate any help!







