Hiya,
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Will try to keep this short.. DD is 18 months old. About 4 weeks ago she started coughing in the middle of the night. I went in and she was wheezing really badly -- not like cold congestion. We took her into the peds the next morning and our Dr. said she thought DD had a viral lung infection (not RSV, she tested neg) but that the wheezing didn't seem exactly like that, and tha it wasn't usually that bad. It was scary -- skin sucking in between ribs, fighting for every breath, etc. We narrowly avoided a hospital stay & breathing tube. She went on steroids for a week (which made her crazy), and nebulizer treatments. At a followup, the Dr. put her on cingulair for a month.
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She got sick about 3 days ago with a moderate-severe cough and cold, then started wheezing again yesterday. Not as bad as the first time. Coincidentally our ped follow-up to see how the Cingulair was helping was yesterday. The Dr. said that now she would consider this 'recurrent wheezing'. She put her back on another week-long course of steroids and changed her cingulair to a daily inhaled steroid, which has to be taken for a month, minimum, in order to even start working, and she wants us to do at least 3 months.
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Of course if this is necessary we have no problem following this regimen. And of course we don't want to take chances with a breathing problem. However, I have some concerns about our ped -- when we have tried to refuse the chickenpox vaccine, she responded that children die from the chickenpox -- that's why there's a vaccine." In short, if DD *needs* that medication and it outweighs the risk then fine, but I'm worried our ped may be a little bit heavy handed with medication, etc. And I'm worried about 3 months + of steroid use in a baby who is not even 2.
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Is this worth getting a second opinion on? If so, how does one go about doing that? Do you explain before the fact to your insurance? Just pay out of pocket? How do you explain to your doctor without seeming like a jerk that you wanted a second opinion? How do you decide who to go to for a second opinion?
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Any thoughts/advice very welcome. Thanks in advance.
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