My house is a wreck and the kids are sitting in front of the TV (pbs, but still) because I just don't have the energy to deal with the constant fighting over stuff and demands for me to do things. I feel like a bad mother, but I don't know what to do to make things better. I wake up in the morning with no energy, feeling like I just want to go back to bed. DD is 4 and DS is 20 months and sometimes the demands are just overwhelming. The snow that is keeping us stuck in the house isn't helping either. Sorry, this is more of a vent than a question. Any thoughts would be appreciated.