We had our first intact son 2 years ago. We were given quite the pressure from my parents to circ him, but knew we didn't want to and refused. They (and my MA sister) still think we made a stupid decision that Jonas is going to hate us for in the future.
Our second intact son is due in 16 weeks. I *thought* we'd get less pressure from them, seeing that we already have an intact son who has NEVER had any problems with his penis/foreskin.
I mean, my mother and I disagree with each other on EVERYTHING, from homebirth to extended breastfeeding to vaccines to circumcision, why in the WORLD did I think she wouldn't say anything?? It started yesterday. She informed me that if I didn't do any vitamin K or testing at birth (considering opting out at the hospital so we can go home early), we wouldn't know if he had hemophilia until they circumcised him and then it would be too late. Um... yeah... Again, like with Jonas, assuming that we will "come to our senses" and circumcise them, put them on formula and get them on the CDC vax schedule... After all, this is just a "fad" and I'm only doing it to be "cool"... (no, seriously, that's what she's said to me before!)
Fear not, my fellow intactivists. At least two boys (for now) are safe from meaningless, harmful cutting of their genitalia! :D