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For anyone who introduced occasional bottles at 3-4 weeks

post #1 of 8
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or once nursing was well established...did it work? How often did you have to "give a bottle" to keep it working?

 

This is number 3 for us, and I'd like to be able to go out to a concert, or a movie occasionally with dh after going through 2 nurslings that did not go for anything but breast for the first year of their lives. I'll admit, nursing SAHM laziness and a serious dislike of pumping is probably much to blame for that. But if I can get some success stories, I'm willing to put a little effort in this time...

post #2 of 8
My DD2 got a bottle a day from about a week old. She was a twin, and I was seriously ill that whole first year, so I used the bottle as a way of coping with the overwhelming demands I had on me. She had no problem going back and forth from breast to bottle, never had any problems with nursing. She was my easiest kid to feed, all round.

I tried introducing bottles to her twin, my DS, at that same age, and it was a disaster. He ended up with massive nipple confusion, after only two days. He started passionately refusing the breast, got himself terribly dehydrated and lost a half a pound, and we wound up paying out a pile of money for a lactation consultant to spend a few evenings at the house with me, getting it all sorted out. But once we got him back on the breast, which was a mighty struggle, he took up refusing the bottle, and refused it outright until he was a toddler. eyesroll.gif

My DD1 was also a nipple-confusion baby...

I think these things are more about temperament, than about anything you do or don't do as a parent. Some kids have no trouble, and others DO, and it's hard to predict ahead of time who's who. My point of view would be to try it-- try once daily, just a small amount-- maybe two ounces-- and see how it turns out. Be prepared to abandon it, if baby turns out to be one who's subject to nipple confusion-- you don't want to walk that road. On the other hand, if baby takes to it easily, and goes back and forth without trouble, I would guess three times a week should be enough to keep up the habit of how to use a bottle. (I am just guessing on that, though.)
post #3 of 8
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I wouldn't be willing to try any artificial nipples until 3-4 weeks (provided I felt nursing was well established at that point.) Having a baby who will take a bottle is not important enough to me that I would do something that might cause damage to our nursing relationship. shy.gif

post #4 of 8

I'm pretty sure I started pumping at 4-5 weeks and we introduced the bottle at 5-6 weeks. My DH or mom gave the bottle every other day or so (If you're building a stash, you can pump every day, but I don't see any reason your LO has to practice with the bottle every day). I started back to work at 11 weeks pp. However, I was off for a month over Christmas, and we did no bottles at all, and since starting back, my 8-month-old has started to refuse the bottle/just wait for me to get home -- so probably a month was too long to go and expect her to hop right back into it.

post #5 of 8

I missed the "window" of introducing a ottle with DD2, was never successful with DD1 so when DS came along I also wanted him desperately to take one. I started offering at 4 weeks, I do feel that is a good time for most moms if nursing is going well. Not too young but young enough that they are not completely opposed to trying it, usually. I gave him one once a week to keep him used to it and that was fine until 7 months or so when we got sick, busy, etc.. and I let almost 3 weeks go by without giving him a bottle, never got him to take one again. Needless to say with #4, I will make sure i keep on it. 

post #6 of 8

I had an easy bottle-taker. introduced the bottle at about 6-7 weeks. she had about 3-4 bottles from that time until she was 3.5 months. at which point she started having 1-2 bottles a week because I was in school. at 7 months I finished school, she had a bottle about 2-3 times in 3 months. then I started working full-time and she started having a bottle a day until she started refusing the bottle at about 14 months (at which point she was nursing primarily for comfort and didn't need it for nutrition at all.) 

post #7 of 8

We introduced them about 4-5 weeks but I couldn't be around. She wouldn't take them if I was in view.  Also, mine went to the sippy cup pretty fast as well.

post #8 of 8

Dd got them after 4-5 weeks, I think.  Ds, probably by 2 weeks.  Neither had a problem.  I rarely left them, and rarely had dh do a nighttime feeding or anything like that.  It was easy for us.  I pumped occasionally and put it in the freezer.  My babes took bottles from dh, my sisters, my brother, my mom, my friend who babysits for us sometimes.  No problem.  I know it's hard for some people, but it never was for us.

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