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No Cry Sleep Solution - can anyone refresh my memory?

post #1 of 6
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I checked out the No Cry Sleep Solution book from the library and had to return it before DD reached 4 months, which was the time to really start it. Now she's almost 5 months and her sleep patterns sound like the ones the author wrote about in the beginning - 30 minutes here and there. I'm wondering if anyone has the book and could refresh my memory about what to do at the 4 month old stage during the day to help get longer naps out of her?

 

Thanks for your help!

post #2 of 6

I really didn't like this book for info before a year. Before a year she advocates forcing a baby to nurse longer than baby wants or withholding nursing for a certain amount of time (3-4 hours) because at this age babies "should" be able to go something like 6 hours without eating. Bassically you should ignore your child's needs. She has great advice for toddlers, but babies not so much. In my opinion.

post #3 of 6

Asraidevin, with all due respect, you must have just skimmed the book or something.  Pantley never restricts withholding bmilk.  She describes a "pull-off technique" to try to keep the babe from associating falling asleep directly with nursing, but that is it--and she goes to great pains, over and over, to say that you should keep nursing your babe if she needs it.  As far as how long a babe "should" be able to go without nursing, she always just says "some babies can", and emphasizes (to the point of being redundant) that every baby is different and you should ALWAYS seek to fulfill your own baby's needs, and trust your own mama instinct.  I just reread the book myself, and she goes on and on about how important it is to give your babe just what she needs.

 

As for napping, she does have a book just on napping.  The original book is more about nighttime sleep.

 

If you can't get your hands on the book again, I'd check out her website; I believe there is a lot of info there.

 

Best wishes!

 

http://www.pantley.com/elizabeth/advice/007159695X.php 

 

post #4 of 6

Haha, I confused this one with the Sleep Lady book. Duh!! Sorry. My bad. i was reading the website site thinking, this isn't the book I read at all. And the I realized ...

post #5 of 6
Thread Starter 

Thanks so much for responding. Our baby is all over the map. After 10 minutes of sound sleeping in the wrap, I transfer her to the swing with white noise and vibration. I feel like I'm doing everything right. Yesterday, no longer than 40 minute naps. Today, 90!!! Who knows...

Here's what I got from the website and thanks for posting the link - I wouldn't have even known where to look!

 

The fact that your baby falls asleep with your help and then sleeps between 30 to 50 minutes are two factors that combine to define the main cause of these mini-naps: an inability to fall asleep or stay asleep without aid. Your baby wakes fully at the end of the first sleep cycle, resulting in a too-short nap. I refer to this problem as One-Cycle Sleep Syndrome (OCSS) and most common among young babies.

There are a number of ways to fix OCSS. One way to help your baby sleep longer is to put her for a nap in a setting that will lull her back to sleep when she wakes between sleep cycles. Cycle-Blender naps occur in slings, cradle-swings, rocking cradles, strollers, or baby hammocks. Any of these can help cat-nappers extend their sleep time because when Baby begins to awaken the rhythmic motion can lull her back to sleep.

Once your baby gets used to taking a longer nap with movement, you can make a transition to bed naps. Start by reducing the movement -- less intensity and for less time. After your baby is asleep, you can stop the motion. Resume movement if she begins to wake up mid-nap. Over time, you can start to let your baby fall asleep in the stationary cradle, swing or stroller, and soon, the nap habit will be in place.

When it is time to make the move to putting your baby for naps in the crib, there are steps you can take to help your baby accept this new location. Use a padded crib mattress pad and soft flannel sheets to make the surface more welcoming. Play soft music or white noise, such as recordings of ocean waves, and keep the room darkened during naps. All this will encourage sleep.

post #6 of 6

Just FYI, my midwife sent me this book after I complained of some hard days and nights with my 4-5 week old. I implemented just a few of the techniques and just finished my 4th night of not getting out of bed and baby sleeping 4 hour periods. This is som different from vacuuming at 4am and being up with a creaming baby all night. So I think that there is something in this book for all ages and I hope to read it and implement the techniques to avoid future sleep problems. Good book!!

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