I talked to our local midwives who said- ok to a home birth after 2 c-sections as the cause for the c-section isn't likely to happen again....
so I figured I might as well talk to my OB that I've seen for all of my pregnancies and who also did the c-sections to hear what she had to say and find out if there was anything about the incision I should know about.oh and i didn't even mention I was thinking of home birth. Also I had call them a couple weeks ago to get a copy of my records send to the hospital about an hour away who says that they will do a VBA2C. I still have to meet with them to know what they really think.
Well I don't even know what to think! Everything she said was basically don't do it. She mainly focused on uterine rupture- said it was 5% for two for more previous. she told me that if anything went wrong they would literally have seconds to save my life and that the babies life won't even be a concern because it would be dead or possibly have cerebral palsy. Apparently she and her partner have both seen a rupture during their residencies at a large hospital and hers ended in death of the baby and his ended with the baby having cerebral palsy. And after seeing that they just don't recommend it. Now I know what 5% is but i guess for illustration she gave the example of having 100 people in a room and knowing 5 of them would die- would i want my child in that room. She then went on about the hospital I might transfer to saying it' too small to offer the standard of care & she couldn't believe they said yes because if anything went wrong we'd have an automatic lawsuit case.They should have an OR on the same floor as the labor room and an OR ready and waiting just for me. Also that one Dr there is 80 something years old and another Dr is really new and they aren't going to be as fast as she and her partner could be if needed. This hospital has midwifes and she said that they're willing to let natural labor go on longer cause they can't really do anything and then when things go wrong they just step back and page in the Dr. my OB said if I was her sister she would forbid me but since she can't forbid me she recommends I consult with the even larger hospital 2 hours away and continue seeing her with her sending important info to them and then once labor starts come in and if under 4 centimeters go in an ambulance to said hospital 2 hours away and if over 4 I'd stay at our local really small, doesn't do vbacs at all hospital and we'd all look at each other and hope for the best & she'd get the OR ready jut in case. I asked her if the risk on continued c-sections was less than the risk of vbac and she wasn't quite willing to say that but said that the risk with c-section is mostly with later pregnancies having placenta problems but she's done thousands of c-sections and plenty of c-sections after 3,4,5 kids.
I don't know about the hospital 1 hour away but i know she would want IV, continuous internal mointor etc. And really if I had to labor in our hospital again I'd rather have a scheduled. And the idea of riding for 2 hours in an ambulance during what was at least during my first labor and very intense fast labor just sounds horrible.
I feel like I've been told the opposite things and in a way both the MWs and the OBs are like the voices in my head- yes i can do it & it should be a natural uncomplicated birth and then ah things go wrong that have a really low rate as we found out with ds1 & what if....







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