DS2 is 23 months and I have not yet had a PPAF. We nightweaned almost 2 months ago (he had gotten to as frequent as EVERY HOUR so I finally threw in the towel on night nursing and now I sleep in the other room, which I secretly love) and so I was expecting that AF would return. (after DS1 abruptly weaned/nursing striked at 13 months I got AF back one month later)
This is what's happened in the last 2.5 weeks:
Jan10 or 11 we had sex (we use condoms, but not until the last minute...stupid I know)
Jan 13 started extremely painful nursing, and continued at the same level of pain for a week and then lessened. Now I would say it's uncomfortable
Jan 17 dizzy for a few seconds while nursing DS2 to sleep
Jan 19 one VERY painful centralized uterine cramp that lasted 15 or 20 minutes
Jan 23 dizzy for a second and later some more cramps
Jan 24 and 27 preg test shows negative.
obviously I have no idea when AF should be due.
No bleeding, and had no signs of ovulation (I usually feel a one-sided quick pain) and haven't had a period in almost 3 years...so maybe this is just a whopper coming?!?!?
I'm a midwife, but cannot seem to think objectively with myself
P.S. Of course I would be excited (although we were a "maybe" on a third, I also deep down have always felt that I'm meant to do this again) but if I wasn't preg I would feel quite relieved as I feel DS2 would be too young when #3 would be due-- I prefer larger spacing)