I don't think I ever posted on the other one:
DH works for himself. He likes to look nice, but it's usually slacks or nice jeans, button up shirt, sweater. Or button up short sleeve shirt in summer. Ties and suit jackets only very rarely when he has a big meeting. In which case he takes them off for jeans as soon as he gets home. He almost always wears a fedora. He's in graphic design, so I tease him that he looks like Don Draper on vacation. (Since I tend to love 50s garb, we look pretty Mad Men when out together. I do not, sadly, look like January Jones though! And our marriage has thankfully never been Draper-drama-esque!) I usually wear sweaters and a-line skirts with leggings; or sweaters and jeans. That's what I'm usually wearing when he gets home. With crazy patterned socks, because I don't wear shoes in the house, and I like silly socks. I wear things that look nice but are machine washable and don't need ironing. I don't usually wear makeup, but I've been trying to do it more often in the mornings for my own joy.
He is supposed to get home at 6:30, but it's nearly always 7 instead. I try to have dinner ready on the table when he gets here because the kids get wacky if they eat any later but we like to have family dinner. He is usually greeted at the door by kids who are supposed to be washing hands, but are instead letting the sink run and making a mess in the bathroom. He helps them, gets them to the table, we all eat, then we do family clean up for 1/2 hour. We say we will start bedtime routine then, but really, we all sit around for a while, DH playing guitar and me on the computer, and the kids playing, until the kids start squabbling. Then we each take a kid, do pjs, vitamins, teeth and we all go upstairs to put the kids to bed and read to them. While I nurse the youngest, he walks the dog. He usually goes back to working after that. I try to tackle dishes and laundry if they weren't done during family clean up. I find it really hard to get anything done at night though, I just want to sit at the computer too. We watch some TV together usually before we go to sleep.