My two and a half year old is hitting and kicking.

[MommaElissa]

My only child has begun hitting and kicking when things aren't going her way, it seems to only be directed towards me and her other caregivers (so far I haven't seen her act this way towards other children),  I've tried many different approaches and so far nothing has worked. any and all feedback would be greatly appreciated! 

[rightkindofme]

I have no advice but an awful lot of kids in my circle are going through this.  We are redirecting and talking about gentle hands/feet.  I'm not sure what else to do.

[K1329]

I've noticed with my dcs and with my friends children, that most children seem to go through a period of... something. Hitting, kicking, scratching, or biting. IMO, they're learning how to express their emotions/deal with frustration and anger. Same thing as above poster - reminders about being gentle, offering other outlets for frustration. I told my dd (a hitter) to stomp her foot when she felt frustrated/mad. I also used the opportunity to discuss different types of emotion - happy, sad, angry, etc.

[Skippy918]

You're not alone.  My DS likes to hit things, whether it be furniture or us when he doesn't get his way or if he's frustrated about something.  We're seeing if using time-outs will help.  I've tried sympathizing with him, but not sure if he gets it.