He was fully co-sleeping but in the last few months he nowfalls asleep in out bed, we move him to his, and then sometime a few hours later, he wakes and cries to come into our bed. Then we end up moving him back early morning. We have a queen size but with DH and I and a tossing a turning toddler who basically needs his own double he moves so much, its too much and we aren't sleeping at all.
I guess he never will get into his bed unless we sneak him in there after he is asleep. We are due again in a few months and I am planning on breastfeeding and co-sleeping for those first few rough months as I always do to maximize my sleep. No way to do this with him in the bed and we arent in a position in our relationship (dh and I) to seperate into seperate beds, rooms, etc. We are trying to get closer after some major issues not farther apart.
Any tips from those who managed to transition their little ones? By the way, his crib is right by our bed but he wants to be right under one of us.