Ex has been telling ds for a month now that his wife's baby will be here "any time now", twice a week when he calls. The calls have always been 2-4 minutes with the only thing ex talking about is how the baby will be born "any time now". Every call for a month he's promised ds that "as soon as the baby is born I'll call, even if it's not a Sunday or Thursday" (those are the days ex calls ds). Yesterday afternoon ex's grandparents posted on their facebook (I'm friends with them) that the baby was born. I kept the phone on me all day expecting ex to call (and didn't tell ds because ex never asked me to so I figured he wanted to do it). He never did. He didn't call until 7pm tonight (his regular time). He starts the call with "So, Owen, I guess you heard the good news, huh?". Owen was like "what good news?". Where the heck would ds have heard the "good news" from if ex didn't call to tell him like he had promised him a dozen times that he would? Ex told ds that the baby was born at 7am Saturday..... 36 hours and ex "didn't have time" to call ds? That's bogus. And he wonders why ds isn't interested in talking to him. That's bull. Thursday when ex called ds he was talking about how the baby would be born "any time now" and added that once the baby was born he (ex) would have two sons. You could hear somebody in the background say something and then ex said "Oh, I mean 3. I guess I'll have 3 sons". WTF? Way to make ds feel like crap. DS was like "oh, okay. Can I hang up now?".
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Ex told ds that he would text a picture of the baby to my phone. We'll see if that ever happens. I have my doubts.
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On another note.... ex should have gotten the visitation papers on Friday (that stated all visits in 2011 will be supervised by me because he neglected Owen in December, the first time in 5 years he had ds alone). He also should be getting a letter from the Friend of the Court requesting info on his income because they're going to re-do child support. Any bets on whether he'll sign over his rights when he realizes how much the child support will increase? Hmmmm.... almost makes me wish I was a fly on his wall when he and Chickadee find out....
Once he gets the letter he has to report how much he makes and then return it (which, of course, he'll drag his feet on). Once they finally get that info (and I'll have to submit the same) then they'll determine the new support amount. So, unfortunately, it won't change for a little while. 
