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But there is the argument that there are more long term, unrecognized complications from circumcising infants. I realize that it isn't related to religious circumcision, and all. That being said, there are some serious problems arising in men who were circumcised in a medical setting. The shaft can be bent, there can be skin tags, etc. There are also complications for the infant. The AAP lists approximately 20 in their statement on circumcision.
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That being said, I try to respect other people's religious preferences. But shouldn't the child have some say? What if he doesn't want to be the same religion as his parents? I am not.
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I also have one question: Why wouldn't his prayers be considered valid? I thought circumcision in Islam was optional?
As we're not supposed to debate circumcision here...I'm not going to go there. Â But I advise you to talk with a urologist about which is more prone to complications and difficulty. Â I'll venture that 99.99% of urologists would say that if you were to choose between circumcizing an infant vs. an adult male, knowing that it would be done regardless, to do it as an infant. Â Well... maybe not 99.99%, as urologists don't typically benefit from infant circumcision, but do earn $$ off of adult circs.
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I know of no born Muslim males who have not been circumcised--even among secular ones, they are circumcised. If there were a medical reason not to do so (and I can't think of one right now...maybe some sort of hemophelia or some such thing), then one wouldn't circumcise--but for all other males, they are typically circumcised at birth. Â In Turkey, they do it around 5, but that's the only exception I'm aware of. Â It's Sunnah, a practice of Prophet Muhammad--and part of cleanliness. Â It has to do with following Abraham's example as well--whom Muslims revere just as much as Jews and Christians. Â "The practices related to Fitrah are five: circumcision, shaving the pubic hair, trimming the moustache, cutting the nails and removing the hair of the armpits."(Bukhari) Â
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Depending on the madhab one follows, it can either be fard (obligatory) or highly recommended. Most scholars consider it obligatory. Â One theory is that if it were not required, then Abraham would not have undergone it at such a late age. Â It is required for one's (well a male's) prayers to be valid according to Ibn Abbas. Â It is also required for one to make Hajj according to Ibn Abbas. Â
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As to religious choice, all kids can choose to follow a different path when they are older. Â However, as a Muslim parent, it's my responsibility to raise my kids as Muslims--teach them to pray, teach them to love God, have my male sons circumcised, give charity on their behalf, teach them to fast, etc. Â Neglecting circumcision would be neglecting my duties as a parent.Â
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