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Tickletoes - I just also want to say.. that my first appointments were really really positive and I don't want anyone to even think for a second they might be facing what we are. (I personally have a tendency to think that way).  What we are going through is not the norm.  It's a deviation from what should be - that being said I was really excited when the OB/GYN was cocky about getting "gals" pregnant.  There are so many simple medical nudges to get moving in the right direction.  She said, she had a 75% success rate for pregnancy without having to send her patients to fertility doctors.  I happened to fall into the 25%, which leaves the door wide open for the rest of you guys to be in that EASY 75%!!  dust.gif

 

Birdie - Smiley face OPK's work!  Can't wait for you to post about your first smiley!  I have also read that most people eventually do get pregnant, it sort of makes me want to slow this IVF train down.  I got some preseed this month, I read a lot about it and I think it may help DH's few good men.  Thanks for being so positive - you are a beam of light! coolshine.gif

 

Northstar - I agree.. YOU ARE THAT GOOD!  thumb.gif I'm impressed, the last Haiku - "No complaint from him" PRICELESS!!  Don't forget to write these down. geek.gif

 

 

ShannonO - My aunt showed me TED just two weeks ago!  I encourage everyone take a look at that site.  With my aunt, we were watching an Autistic Brilliant lady give a talk about how it takes all kinds of people.  I'm looking forward to watching Richard and Rao.  lightbulb.gif

 

Valh - just knowing you are with me on this, is really helping. You have been such a leader in my TTC world - I sincerely appreciate it. luxlove.gif I'm getting mixed reactions with my news from family.  DH's family is sooo supportive (he's adopted and his mom and dad really understand what we are going through, but my mom is not dealing well, I think she is fearful and feels helpless, I'll just give her time to let this soak in).  HOW WAS TELLING EVERYONE THE GOOD NEWS?!  Are you feeling well?  

 

NMOUSE joy.gifCongratulations!!  Happy and Healthy 9 Smooth months to you!!

 

Hykue - you feeling good?  I have a really good feeling and you seem to be bringing a bunch of friends with you to the DDC.  run.gif

 

HEY LADIES.. you are all doing so well.. some hanging out in the TTW, and I don't think we're done celebrating BFP's in February.  

 

Shellhawk, you ok out there?  

 

Livingsky - are you showing yet?  Feeling good? belly.gif (I'm not sure I picture LivingSky with a big pink bow in her hair.. lol).  

 

Bootsmcgee - I hope you are feeling better.. I hope you could enjoy your day off.  I hope you are reading.  XOXO

 

Bel718 - I know you are taking a break, but that won't stop me.  Just sending you positive energy. goodvibes.gif

 

 

(you know Ikid.gif love this smiley).  

 

 

 

 

 

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Okay, now I'm grumpy.  Three times in the last two days, I've been typing merrily along and pressed some button on the keyboard (I think) that makes my husband's laptop decide to go back a page.  Which, of course, means that I lose everything I've typed.  I can't figure out what it is, but this time it really ticked me off . . . I was more than half-done!  Grr!

 

Northstar:  I'm with you on finding this place being very beneficial.  My husband doesn't get it either, especially since he doesn't particularily want kids.  He doesn't NOT want them, but he wouldn't have chosen to have them if the partner he ended up with didn't have that as a major life goal.  So it was pretty hard to obsess with him . . . and I don't think men handle this stuff the same way we women do anyway.  Knitting isn't harder than sewing, but it is different . . . I'm not very good at sewing (especially with the stupid bleeping machine I've got), but I knit pretty well now.  I bet you could learn to knit, if you wanted to.  The first bit of the learning curve is awfully steep, but it gets better once you start to catch on.

 

Tickletoes:  I'm glad my reminder was a good one.  The hard thing is that in terms of TTC, 7 months is not a long time, it doesn't put you into worry territory yet, but in terms of personal frustration and anguish, it IS a long time.  It's hard to reconcile those two things.  I'm glad Simon is not going to grow out of those ears, they're adorable!  And thank you for the hope.  I have a friend who likes to train cats who thinks that six-toed cats are the most trainable.  He has trained his two five-toed cats to sit, roll over, shake-a-paw and jump through a hoop - and maybe beg, I don't remember for sure.  He would be so jealous that you had a polydactyl cat.  And I love when cats get all full of piss and vinegar and start wigging out, turning their heads upside down or looking in circles, spinning around, attacking absolutely nothing.  It makes me cheery!  Are you Tickletoes on Ravelry, too?  I'm Hykue on there.  I don't expect you'll be on here right away again, what with the business you needed to attend to.

 

ShannonO:  I'm sorry AF found you, but thanks for writing such a funny post about it . . . what a good way to deal with it!  I hope she gets over her anger by next month . . . I think I got stuck with an abusive aunt, so I'm really happy I can kick her out while I grow a baby in her spot.  Ha, take that, Aunt Flo!  Anyway, I'm glad you got an answer without having to spend any money, and in time for the race.  Good luck, and have fun!
 

Val:  I'm glad you're making a baby blanket, that sounds fun!  I might just have to see about doing that myself in a little while.  And I'm with you on being impressed with Taxlady's wonderful attitude.  Even now, I'm not quite acheiving peace, never mind optimism!  But I'm getting closer every day.  Unfortnately, I can think of lots of reasons that my pregnancy might not be okay.  The best I can do is try to focus on the very small probability of any of those things being true.  And try to focus on all the good signs along the way.

 

This is where I was when my computer went all stupid, so sorry if you gals above got shafted!

Taxlady:  On the topic of pet names/baby names, I intentionally named my dog something that I had never heard as a human name, so no-one would ever have a chance to be offended that my dog had the same name as them.  I named her Aria.  Since then, I have personally known one guy who named his kid Aria, and I've heard about a whole bunch more on these boards!  Imagine my surprise.  My next dog, I'll name it Nephron.  Pretty much no chance of anyone naming their kid that!  And I like the name Eric, although I like Erica better, but when I asked my husband how he liked the name Erica he just looked at me funny.  I kind of forgot that it might be confusing to have a child whose name is really similar to a parent's name - my DH is named Erik!  Yeah, I'd love to have more kids homeschool here, but the commute would suck preeeeeetty badly.  As for the new slang, I was actually horrified when I worked one summer with a 19-year-old.  He was a sweet kid, but when I would have said, "Cool", he said, "Bangin'".  It made me literally cringe . . . it made me think of gang-bang, which isn't nice at all, in any way.  When I asked him to stop because it really bothered me, and explained why it bothered me, he told me that that's what it actually meant.  jaw2.gif  Ack!  And he couldn't stop saying it, it was too much a part of his vocabulary.  Actually, he was good for a laugh quite a few times too, not just cringing . . . there was a mechanic in the small town we worked near who only worked in the summers, and in the winters he went snowboarding.  The kid I worked with said, "No way, Mike can't snowboard, he's too old!"  (For reference, I think Mike was about 45 or so).  People argued with the kid, but he was insistent that Mike was "too old" to snowboard.  Finally, someone asked how old he thought Mike was.  I expected he would say 60 or 65, which I would think was getting up there for snowboarding . . . he said, "I don't know - OLD! . . . he must be at least 35!"  One of the guys at the table was 36, and was (understandably) not impressed with this estimate of "OLD".  And that's when I remembered what 19-year-olds think like.  I love the image of your husband trying to show you the new dance craze, only to find it on the internet and have it be completely different.  That cracks me up!  I like TED too.  I've really only poked around there a bit, but what I've seen I've usually liked.  Finally, at the end of my very long response to you . . . I dreamt last night that you got pregnant!  Naturally, but you lost a lot of weight (for some reason) - you only weighed 65 pounds!  So I hope my dream comes half-true . . . it is just a dream after all, so I think half-true is about all one should expect anyway.

 

Birdie:  I don't think it's weird at all that that helped . . . it makes a ton of sense to me, because they were sure it wouldn't happen for them, and it did!  I wish insurance was better there too!  Here's hoping you get Mr. Smiley-man soon!

 

Boots:  I'm not sure if I remembered to respond to you last time.  I hope you start feeling better soon, and that you get to stay that way for a while this time!

 

Shellhawk:  I'm with Taxlady . . . you still around?  Hope you're doing well!

 

AFM:  I am feeling pretty good (thanks for asking, Taxlady!).  I'm tired all the time, sleeping about 12 hours a night, which I think is a good sign . . . and I have zits, also a good sign.  I peed on a second stick yesterday, and it was much darker than the first one - the second line is almost as dark as the control line.  I just want to make it a few more days and then I'll start to relax more . . . I know that even if I WAS going to lose this one, which I'm not, darnit, it wouldn't be that likely to happen on exactly the same day, but I can't help feeling like I'll be much safer once I make it past tomorrow - that was my bad day last time I was pregnant.  At least it was early, so that I can start to relax sooner rather than later!  I want to make an appointment to make sure it's all looking good, too . . . I think that would help me out a lot.  Unfortunately, there appears to be something wrong with the clinic's phone - it rings three times and then hangs up on me every time I call.  Well, it did yesterday.  I guess I'll have to try again today, and if it doesn't work, I'll have to go into town and make an appointment in person (and tell them that I think their phone system bites . . . only in nicer words).  If I wake up feeling anything other than crampy and bloody tomorrow, I will feel very relieved - no matter whether it's bleary, thirsty, grumpy, confused, whatever it is, I'll be happy.  There's still lots of time for even more of you to join in the November DDC . . . hopefully a bunch of you do!

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Congrats nmouse!joy.gifjumpers.gif

 

 

Hi all.

Hykue, Taxi, Livingsky, Calycanth, Shannon, Ram, Boots, Shellhawk, birdie, Val, tickletoes, northstar, and whoever I missed....

love you guys. 

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Tickletoes – I just wanted to second what Taxlady was saying in her previous post to you… my first “fertility” doctor’s appointment was very positive.  My doctor wasn’t quite as cocky as hers, but he was very understanding, supportive, and positive that we WOULD get pregnant.  So while making that first appointment can be very intimidating, I think as long as you have a good doctor or practitioner, it’ll end with a positive outlook – most women trying to get pregnant eventually will, so the odds are definitely in your favor!

 

Taxlady – Thank you for the kind words!  I’m sorry your mom is having a hard time dealing with the news, but at least you have DH’s family for support.  And you always have us!  With that positive attitude of yours and your plan, I wouldn’t be a bit surprised if you get your BFP before you even get to the IVF point.   But if you get to IVF, you can forge the way to be our first Bajingo Juice Club IVF graduate!  I truly can’t wait to celebrate your BFP – I’ll toast you with some sparkling grape juice!! 

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Telling my family went great – my parents were super excited.  My sister was a little hurt at first that I hadn’t told her earlier – she’s the only one in the family that knew we were trying, and I had directly lied to her over the past month about not being pregnant… but after I explained the reason, she was super happy for us too.  As for how I’m feeling… tired a lot, and kind of nauseous a lot of the time, but I’m thrilled to feel that way so I try not to complain. 

 

Hykue – I’ll be praying hard for you, especially over the next few days!   And I’m with you on the being tired… I just took a nap, and when I woke up I was still tired.  And good luck getting your appointment with the clinic!  My next appointment is Friday, and quite honestly I’m terribly nervous about it.  I logically know that odds are that everything is okay.  It doesn’t make me any less anxious about the appointment, though, and the chances of being told something’s not right.  I don’t know when the feeling of paranoia goes away… or when I’ll stop checking for bleeding EVERY time I go to the bathroom.  Okay, enough negativity – sorry!! 

 

Bel – I just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking about you.  Hi!  blowkiss.gif

 

Shell – Just saying HI to you too!!!  We miss you!  tiphat.gif

 

Hi to everyone else, Cathelini, birdie, cristini, razumbo, and anyone else I’m missing.  I hope everyone is having a great week!!   wave.gif

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Hi everyone!!!

 

I see we have another CONGRATULATIONS to go out!!!! NMOUSE, I wish you a very happy and healthy 9 months!!!!!!!!! What amazing news!! Three girls!!!!!!! WOOHOO!!!! I need to drink whatever water you guys are!

 

Shannon, I'm sorry AF showed, but I'm happy you have the peace of mind now to continue on with your training. Will you be temping this cycle? I'm up to running for about 75 minutes straight now. After reading your posts about the studies recommending 7 hours per week, I'm kind of sad. I don't want to stop, but I know if I start it's going to be hard for me to quit early if you know what I mean. I might try to do half that amount during the week and save the longer runs for the weekends...How's your training going??

 

Hykue, I know your computer frustrations all too well. After my inital anger from "previewing" and then having it disappear, I've since given up on trying to write to everyone. Now it's just pure memory, which isn't very good while I'm at work. So many people coming by, phones ringing and email pop-ups that I'm lucky I still know my name. One thing I've noticed is that some keyboards/computers if you hit the backspace button in a certain part of the window (say it's when you've clicked someone outside this text box) it will take you back one page. There's been times where I just close my eyes and go "That did NOT just happen"...and wish. But my fairy godmother left a long time ago, so now I'm on my own. Sooooo frustrating!!!

 

AFM, I'm on CD10 and my OPK sticks are almost positve. It's to the point where it's hard to tell, so I guess that's good? My only two charting cycles had me O on CD13 and CD14, so maybe I'll O a little early this month? Or maybe my eyes are just playing tricks on me and I can't tell the difference between the lines? I wish I had the money to buy the digital tests!! I had already purchased these two-liners...so now I'm stuck with them. All 20! Since I have soooo many I've been peeing on them a lot hehehehe....with my luck I won't O this cycle until like CD20! LOL...We used Pre-Seed last night (GOOO TEAM PRESEED!!) and it was nice! I only used 1 gr. of stuff because I wasn't sure how much to use and I knew the recommended 3 gr. would be WAY too much. I thought 1 gr. was enough to stay in without any spillage, but I felt a little too wet. DH didn't notice, so when we were done I told him and he was like "Really?! Nah, that amount was fine!" (when I asked if he thought it was too slippery. So I guess 1 gr. it is for us! I also drank 10 oz. of grapefruit juice around 3 pm today. We'll see what kind of fluids I've got tonight. I might have to make the GFJ and PreSeed a weekly thing during O-time. I'll let you girls know how that works out!

 

I need to go click on some charts to see where everyone is at! I can't believe it'll be MARCH in a week!!! My sister has her c-section scheduled for March 22!!

 

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Oh Val!! I'm so glad everyone was excited!!! I understand your sister's hurt though :( I had a dream my sister was pregnant and I called and asked. She said every other sentence but NO. Told me I was crazy, said I was dreaming about myself, etc. So a couple weeks went by and I told her that when I went on her wedding website (on the Knot) it was directing me to an empy page on the Bump. All it had was her and her husband's name on it. She started freaking out and called up the company and told them to take it down immediately...but still no "word" that she was preggo. She told my mom and my dad when she went to go visit them (she lives in FL, my dad was at his condo in FL [lives in NJ full time] and my mom is in Pittsburgh)...but still no word to me. Finally about a month before her wedding in October, she tells me she's pregnant and then got mad when I wasn't all shocked. I was like "Dude, I knew back in August when i had the dream you were!". She got pregnant the beginning of July. Then she continued to NOT tell me when all signs were pointing to YES, and then got mad when I wasn't surprised? Really?? Kind of hurt, especially because I asked her point blank. Had I not "known", I totally would have been shocked and surprised and excited, but the lying kind of left a sour taste in my mouth.

 

Does your family live close to you? Since she's so far away, we hardly get any updates...pics, etc. I feel like it's not even real! Hahahaha...

 

I know it's still pretty far away, but have you ladies thought about finding out the gender? My friend did a gender-reveal party where she colored the icing in the middle of the cake blue, so when the grandparents cut into it, they knew it was going to be a boy. I thought that was cute! Another lady did that at my work, but with cupcakes...

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cristini - I'm sorry you had a bad experience with you sister!  I did hate not telling her earlier, but DH and I had agreed to wait until 8 weeks to tell anyone.  It took us so long to get that BFP, I think that made the fear of it not sticking worse for me than if it had come easily.  I just didn't want to tell anyone until I was relatively sure it would stick.  Still we've only told family - I won't tell anyone else until after my appointment this Friday.  I think when I explained the whole fear of miscarriage, my sister understood - she seems fine with everything now. 

 

As for finding out gender - we're still debating!  If it's twins (which Taxlady likes to predict for me) then we'll definitely find out.  If it's just one, then I'm thinking I would like it to be a surprise.  But if we do find out, I like the cake idea!  Pretty cool way of letting people know. 

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Murphy's Law...

 

This morning I tried a pink First Response hpt and thought I saw one faintest-of-faint pink line next to the pink control line. This afternoon (it took me forever to wake up today) I had to hit the ladies room and saw two dark pink spots  when wiping. After repeating my visit to the ladies room several more times, no more spotting but mild cramps around my midsection.

 

Ovulated on CD13 (2/10)

Today 12dpo and CD25

Negative hpts since 6dpo (when I started testing)

 

So if this was implantation bleeding and it's almost the end of my cycle, what is going on down there? I know it's irrational but I did try my ovulation kit just to see (nothing) since this is my first cycle off bcp.

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Northstar- I had implantation bleeding both this time and the last time I was pregnant and both were right before the day I was supposed to start my period.  This time I had it after my bfp.  I am not positive about this but I think implantation bleeding can go on after the actual implantation because it is such a small amount of blood it can take a few days to surface.  I am not positive if that is how it works but the nurse last time told me it was normal to get implantation bleeding on the day of your missed period and even for a few days after.  If you are pregnant it could be your uterus stretching.  It feels slightly different and way more mild than menstral cramps.  It's pretty cool actually to be able to feel it.

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Thanks Tank! So if I just had implantation bleeding, I shouldn't test again until the weekend, right?
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Hykue - The button on the keyboard that is causing the exceedingly annoying deletion of lengthy messages could be the backspace. I think this forum software is less smart than it could be, because it picks up keystrokes it shouldn't. If you click "forward" on the browser, the text should still be there, with some html mixed in. Anyway, I hope you wake up to nothing but glorious pregnancy signs, although for you sake I hope that means not too many zits and nausea.

 

nmouse - Have I said congrats yet? If not CONGRATULATIONS! :) 

 

cristini - Training is slow this week as it's pre-race, although I'm not sure if I could fit it in anyway with school stuff going on. Good luck with your O wait, and thanks for the description of PreSeed use. I'm adding OPKs to my plans this month, but nothing else. I think PreSeed might be next month. Maybe I should check my CM, but I'm trying to not do too much so I don't make myself go too crazy. TTC shouldn't be my main focus...but inevitably it will be. Good luck to your sister!

 

tank - Whoa...you can feel your uterus stretching? That sounds surreal. 

 

Good luck for all in the TWW. I'm waiting to O and will probably be absent for a few days while preparing for a presentation. Thanks for all the well-wishes for the race. I just found out that my friendly competition just "tested" his swim times and he's faster than my fastest time so far...so I will have to work hard to beat him! :D 

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Hykue - I SURE HOPE YOUR DREAM COMES TRUE!!  Hopefully, both parts as I am being weaned off the steroids, I'm also hoping to see a little of this extra steroid weight fall off.  So, if I have to pick, I'll take the baby!!  But if you're dream is right I'll get both wishes!!  

 

 

More later ladies.. gotta go make the "donuts" as they say.. geek.gif

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Yay, nmouse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I'm running off to Italy now. (yay!) I would LOVE to see even MORE BFPs when I get back!

Love and baby dust to all of you. :)

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Val:  I'm glad telling your family went so well!  I think more than being hurt, my sister (and parents for that matter) would have been just plain confused if I had lied to them about it - confused that they hadn't realized I was lying, because I'm the world's worst liar.  Also, they are great at supporting me, so I would rather just tell them.  It's interesting to me how different this is for everyone.

 

Cristinimartini:  I'm glad to hear the preseed is working out so well for you!  Let us know how the grapefruit juice works too.  I have to ask, out of sheer curiosity - is your sister having a scheduled c-section because she prefers it, or for a medical reason?  I'm not asking in any kind of judgmental way, I just was wondering how that works for her.  If it were me, I would only have a scheduled one if my doctor could convince me (and it wouldn't be easy) that it was medically necessary.  Personally, I would rather go through any amount of effort, pain, whatever it takes, than be unconscious.  I've only been knocked out once (to get out my IUD) and I was pretty scared of it.  It wasn't actually that bad, but I still don't want to do it again unless I have to.  But other people have other opinions on this, so I'm curious what's up with that for your sister.  And I totally know what you mean about your sister's pregnancy not feeling real, since you're not there for it.  I saw my sister when she was a couple of months along (and got to see the ultrasound picture), and I didn't see my best friend pregnant at all . . . so the having babies parts seem real enough to me (what with all the baby pictures and meeting both babies - one at 5 months and the other at 2 weeks), but the pregnancy part still seems kind of like a myth . . . even though I know they must have been.  As to finding out the gender . . . I'm a little torn on this one.  In some ways, it would be nice to find out and have a more "personal" relationship with the baby before it's born, just have a better mental image, even though it probably won't be quite accurate.  In another way, it would be so entirely fun to leave it as a surprise.  And my husband and I are both pretty opposed to sex/gender stereotyping, and I don't really want "blue for a boy, pink for a girl" stuff, so that might be easier if we just didn't know.  But I get very impatient, and I always say, "Not knowing's the worst" - that's why I always hated the 2ww even more than I hated getting AF.  At least then I knew.  I flipflop on the issue, and my husband can see both sides.  I guess we'll see . . . and I have a "feeling" about what sex it is - I did long before I even got pregnant.  I wonder if I'm right?

 

ShannonO:  Thanks for the tip, and that has happened before, but these last few times it wasn't the backspace key - I couldn't hit the forward button . . . it took me back a few pages but it was like it erased that I had ever been anywhere else, the forward button was greyed out.  I'll just hope like heck it doesn't happen again, because I can't figure it out.  And I will take all the zits and nausea necessary to keep this pregnancy, I care not a whit if I look like a sniveling drunked teenager, all zitty and throwing up . . . I guess not having that happen would be even better, but I'm really not that picky!  I think that if you're only going to add one thing to your TTC routine, and you want to minimize obsession possibilities, that OPKs are a good choice.  And the uterus stretching thing is kind of strange, but for me at least it kind of just feels like "something" is happening in my lower abdomen, it's hard to really feel anything specific.  I really still feel a lot like it's just AF coming in a couple of days, when I'm having a bad AF month.  Good luck on beating your swimming competition!

 

Taxlady:  Well, I hope my dream comes mostly true for you then, that you get pregnant and lose some weight - but not down to 65 pounds, PLEASE!  That would be awful.  If you've got any inkling and the time (and it's not too early), I was wondering if you had any gender predictions for me?  Just when you get a chance.

 

All the other people who didn't post since I last didwave.gif

 

Everybody:  What's your favorite temperature/weather and why?  I absolutely LOVE sunny spring days, so clear and sunny is my favorite weather, and it goes very well with a nice cool but pleasant temperature of about 65 - up to about 75 is fine, too.  I like the sun because it makes me so cheery, whisks away any seasonal affective disorder, and those temperatures are when the sun is still low in the sky (seasonally or daily), so the light is the prettiest at those times . . . I like the same conditions in fall, too (although at the warmer end, temperature-wise - 65 feels really cold after the summer!  Really cold is not my thing, because then I can't go outside to enjoy the sun (although I might just do that today, anyway) and really hot (for here, so anything above 80, really) means that the sun is overhead and everything looks harsh and unpleasant . . . and that I'm going to sweat and get dehydrated.

 

Everybody again:  It sounds like Taxlady isn't going to have time to be next month's threadkeeper.  Now taking applications for the position of March threadkeeper.  Benefits include a crown (soon to be ready) and the possibility of threadkeeper's luck (worked for me!).  Qualifications include typing and editing posts.  Training included (I will send the threadkeeper instructions to whoever takes the position).  Pay to be given in gratitude from fellow Bajingo Juice Club members.  Duties are adding people to the list on the first page and changing statuses when BFP's are gotten.  All applicants welcome, no previous experience required.  Apply in text on this thread.  The first application will get the job.  Long-haired freaky people feel free to apply.

 

AFM:

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I woke up still pregnant!  I think I'lll still be much more cautious, emotionally and physically, than I would have been if I hadn't had a loss, but I'm feeling pretty good about it now.  I feel like I can finally start to get excited.  Also, I went and made an appointment at the clinic, and I don't know if I'm lucky or if they only schedule with the one doctor for prenatal stuff, but I got in with the BEST doctor I've ever met!  I saw him at my "preconception" visit - which was actually my pre-anesthesia visit for getting my wandering IUD out - and he was incredibly helpful, spent a long time discussing conception and marriage maintenance after baby with me, and also reasssured me about how the IUD was almost certainly just migrated too high, not embedded in my uterus, and that even if it was embedded, I could still get pregnant after it was removed.  I also read reviews of him on some site where patients rate doctors, and he had ONLY good reviews, with the exception that he sometimes keeps patients waiting (which in Canada is ALWAYS the case), and in his case it's because he is so thorough and so careful to put people at ease.  Even the negative "timeliness" reviewers said so!  If I'm lucky enough to get him at the hospital to catch my baby, I swear I'll be 10X as relaxed as I would be otherwise.

 

Phew!  I hope you ladies don't mind that I just went on and on . . . I know it might be a bit much, but I've been sharing my fears with you, so I wanted to share my relief too!

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Hykue: Sounds like everything is going well! Even though you're still cautious you sound like you're more able to enjoy your pregnancy now. As for the weather
I like it in the 70's and mostly sunny, but not everyday. I used to live where it was sunny all the time and it got to be old. A good rainy day makes me really appreciate sun. I am really looking forward to some longer days. It's just no fun when DH comes home and its dark outside.

 

Looks like the board is in "waiting" mode. Lots of people waiting to O and I think maybe a few others are still waiting to find out.

 

AFM: 9 DPO, nothing much going on, my skin is broken out but that's not unusual around AF time. I keep looking at these 'symptoms' on FF and I think I could give them too myself on any given day. Seriously: tired, well its cold and gray so I would rather stay in bed..or maybe I'm pregnant, frequent urination, I do drink like a gallon of water/tea a day so....or maybe I'm pregnant, nausea, bloated is it the Chinese food or.....I feel like if I put stuff down I'm just trying to convince myself.

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Hey Ladies!  Lurkey McLurkleson's cousin Lurk-Lee here.  Thank you so much for all the goodvibes.gifand kind words.  I'm not giving up yet!  But I am just going to not try to think about it so much.

 

Congrats nmouse!  Awesome!

 

wave.gif everyone!

 

Ok..back to my corner.

smile.gif

 

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I wanna be thread keeper next month! I love you guys and haven't been around much so I'll show you my luxlove.gifthis way. :)

 

I'm still wiped out from work today but want some feedback on my AFM....

 

Today is CD 38. My longest cycle since I've been tracking is 36. When I was on soy I was down to 28. I had some wicked cramps today. Pimple. Still waiting for AF! I really, really don't think I'm pregnant, only one shot on CD16 which was way before any O symptoms. I don't even know what my question is. I am just anxious to get AF and start anew. I want to go back to soy and maybe to temping. But I'm still stuck in this cycle with almost no chance of pg. I am not testing until like CD100 because I just know I am not pg and I'm sick of looking at those bitchy white sticks.

 

Hey Tickletoes (and anyone else) my ravelry name is Bootsie!

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haha, and here is the other lurker checking in with you gals!

Congrats to nmouse :) and hello to everyone!

I have an inner battle while reading this thread... I want to be more active here, but I don't want to obsess, coz I tend to obsess about things I want.  Am doing the 2ww and I put myself thru all sorts of mind games!!!  Easier to avoid thinking about it.  hence, my posting neglect.

 

I'm totally loving the "Making Babies" book....so far so good.  But reading all the little details of what has to happen and the timing and everything involved in conceiving, it's a sheer miracle anyone gets pregnant at all....!  Still gotta get DH to step it up a bit, 2X a month isn't gonna do it! 

 

oh, funny TMI story...it was a good day to do it, u know per ovulation timing...I let DH know.  But an incident occurred with MIL (she was talking bad about me to a house guest!) and it became a big to do when I brought it up after the guests left... anyway, so he finishes lecturing her about the inappropriateness and comes in the bedroom, and he's all, "I'm not really in the mood now..." so i suggest "slipping into something more comfy" and he's all, "no, we're trying to make a baby!  I don't want all that naughty stuff!  I want candles!"   My husband the romantic :)

 

But I can't help feeling MIL has jinxed me somehow, do u guys believe in that stuff?  that the baby won't come if someone in the household resents its coming?  Thank goodness she is leaving soon.  I hope she is anyway...but she's already been here a few weeks longer than she was supposed to.  ugh.  sorry I'm in a bad mood every time I think of her.  I try not to think of her, but I see/hear her in the house all day long.  I feel like I'm losing my mind.

 

Sorry for the scatter-brained post, maybe i'm pg?????

 

I'm so happy for those of you getting positives!  stick baby stick!

 


 

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Originally Posted by Bel718 View Post

Hey Ladies!  Lurkey McLurkleson's cousin Lurk-Lee here.  Thank you so much for all the goodvibes.gifand kind words.  I'm not giving up yet!  But I am just going to not try to think about it so much.

 

Congrats nmouse!  Awesome!

 

wave.gif everyone!

 

Ok..back to my corner.

smile.gif

 

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