Major deferrer, fairly major perfectionist, and a bit of hoarding thrown in. Hoarding runs in my family, though. In my mom's case, I don't think it's insecurity as described in the article - more a belief that throwing anything tha can be used away is being wasteful. For my part, I think I have a bit of that, and I just...inherited it from my mom and dad.
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I'm currrently decluttering. I have five pairs of old pants - torn, stained, unwearable, and some of them are 15 years old. It's making me feel like a wastrel to throw them away, even though they mostly live on my bedroom floor and/or push my usable pants out of my drawers. *sigh*