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*nods* One thing I'm finding in my research is that post-IUD infertility (or delay of fertility) seems to be common. The recommendation is to only get one if you 1--have already had children and 2--are pretty sure you're done having children. Just in case you know.


Is that for both types or just the Mirena? I had the Copper (hormone free) one and got pregnant 18 days after it was removed.  shrug.gif

Honestly I don't know. I was reading some articles from the NYTimes and from I think Time Magazine and they didn't specify which kind, that was just the recommendation of several doctors who were interviewed.

 

Thank you all for your contributions on this topic. I had never thought to go to planned parenthood's website--that was very helpful, thank you! I got a lot more specifics about several forms of birth control, and (especially helpful) some details about the effectiveness of various methods. Their little 'which BC method should you use' quiz said I should try a cervical cap, diaphragm , or IUD. Seeing as now both the cap and diaphragm have like 30% failure rate for someone who has given birth (and pregnancy prevention is our priority right now), I'm still leaning toward the IUD.

 

@Christine--I have read up on how they work. An IUD just feels like the best option to me right now (although I'm also considering the nuvaring, but I'm not sure if I can do it since I'm not postpartum menstruating yet). I know the IUD drastically reduces the uterine lining so that implantation can't happen, which as a pro-lifer that does give me pause... but the IUDs also thicken the mucus so that it's darn hard for the sperm to get to the eggs anyway...and the Mirena suppresses ovulation as well, so it seems like the chances of ovulating and fertilizing are very very very slim...so the inability to implant seems almost irrelevant because it would just be so unlikely to get to that point. At least that's how I'm feeling about it. I appreciate your bringing up that issue though, because those things do matter to me.

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Hey, just joined and wanted to say hello.  I'm a full time mom to a little red headed firecracker (18months) and expecting our second in mid September.  I live in Anchorage, teach HypnoBirthing, and I make vegan cakes and cupcakes when I have time (or sometimes when I don't!).

 

I hope this isn't the wrong thread to jump in on for an introduction, but didn't see anywhere for that :) 

I also organize a meetup group for parents of infants and toddlers, so we keep pretty busy with that.

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Welcome MeatFreeMom.

 

Jenni - 30% failure rate???? Well what's the point of that?  When I was about 12 my mom gave me the Birth Control segment of "the talk" - she made a list of all the bc options and went through each explaining how they work, don't work, etc. At the end of they talk I said, "mom, you forgot to talk about the diapraghm. How does that work?" Her response: "I don't know, go ask your brother." (My brother is 21 months younger than me. It took me quite a long time to figure out what she meant)

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Welcome MeatFreeMom.

 

Jenni - 30% failure rate???? Well what's the point of that?  When I was about 12 my mom gave me the Birth Control segment of "the talk" - she made a list of all the bc options and went through each explaining how they work, don't work, etc. At the end of they talk I said, "mom, you forgot to talk about the diapraghm. How does that work?" Her response: "I don't know, go ask your brother." (My brother is 21 months younger than me. It took me quite a long time to figure out what she meant)

heehee
 

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Hey, just joined and wanted to say hello.  I'm a full time mom to a little red headed firecracker (18months) and expecting our second in mid September.  I live in Anchorage, teach HypnoBirthing, and I make vegan cakes and cupcakes when I have time (or sometimes when I don't!).

 

I hope this isn't the wrong thread to jump in on for an introduction, but didn't see anywhere for that :) 

I also organize a meetup group for parents of infants and toddlers, so we keep pretty busy with that.



Welcome! I have met you before! nice to see here too!

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I really liked the diaphragm method before we had DD - but if it really has a 30% failure rate . . . What a bummer.  Years ago I used Nuvaring and really liked it, but I have a friend who wound up with really severe headaches when she tried it.  shrug.gif

 

Personally, the idea of having metal in my uterus makes me all squeamish.  DH laughs at me though, because the plastic Nuvaring in my vagina does not gross me out.  Apparently, crossing the cervix is crossing the line!

 

I'm so glad the chat on here is picking up a bit.  I'll admit I wasn't helping it along any, but MDC time has been radically cut short over the last few months.   Between an 17 month old *ahem* 'spirited' child and being almost ready to pop with #2 - I just don't have much time on the internet where I'm capable of writing complete sentences.  lol, welcome to motherhood, right?

 

So my last birth was pretty fast (for a first timer) and pretty easy duck.gifand I am really hoping for a repeat performance this next time.  I'm full term this Thursday!  uhoh3.gif  Part of me really hopes this baby is little and will be a little peanut in little newborn clothes for a while, and part of me wants to see just how big I can grow 'em!  lol, my first (and only so far) was 9 lbs and I kind of impressed myself by birthing her with no tears, I'd like to see if I can do bigger!  But I think/hope this one will be smaller.  More reasonably sized.  And this time I have a whole bunch of AP mama friends who are signing up to come over and help me clean, cook, take care of DD - I feel so lucky!  You ladies were all so helpful when I was trying to move to Fairbanks while 'big with child' and now I've got more Alaskan mamas helping this time too.  Maybe Alaskans are just the kindest people ever?

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I just got an IUD 8 days ago.  I got the Mirena at Planned Parenthood.  It was painless, and while I was expecting to have tons of bleeding, I only spotted for two days, and it was just on wiping.  

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Happy Valentines Day!!!

 

 

 

anyone got a membership to H2oasis? We do and It would be a great place to hang out while the kids exhaust themselves. :)

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I just got an IUD 8 days ago.  I got the Mirena at Planned Parenthood.  It was painless, and while I was expecting to have tons of bleeding, I only spotted for two days, and it was just on wiping.  



do you mind me asking how much it cost? And do you know if they have the copper one available?

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The 30% failure rate is only if you've given birth... it's like 5% failure rate if you haven't had a baby...   Several BC methods seem to be recommended for pre OR post baby, but not both. IUDs have much higher rates of complications for a woman who has never given birth for example, but almost none for someone who has...

 

@Tammy--The lady at the fertility clinic here said the IUD runs around $500 I think (that might include the exam and all too, I'm not sure). The clinic here in Homer isn't Planned Parenthood, it's an independent clinic, so I don't know if that makes a difference. They have a sliding scale here though so I'm not having to pay the full rate since we're kinda unemployed :tomato

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 Maybe Alaskans are just the kindest people ever?


I have to wholeheartedly agree with this statement.  I come from California, where people are generally pretty friendly, but I've never met so many people so genuinely happy to help one another.  From a moving truck to free babysitting, people just look out for each other around here.

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 I WISH I had a membership to H2Oasis.. that place is FAR too costly imho. I can't justify the cost.. although the price may have come down since I checked last.

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 I WISH I had a membership to H2Oasis.. that place is FAR too costly imho. I can't justify the cost.. although the price may have come down since I checked last.



Well, it was cheaper then the Alaska Club for our family and the kids have a lot more fun there then they ever could at the Club. So we went for it. :)

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I had a mirena IUD come out without me noticing it and disappear.  (I noticed when I was 11 weeks pregnant with the next kid).  I think I got it put in too soon after birth, though.

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Hi Roads6!  

I wish we lived close enough to justify the water park costs. LOL  We do have a museum / imaginarium membership though! The kiddlets love it.

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Well, it was cheaper then the Alaska Club for our family and the kids have a lot more fun there then they ever could at the Club. So we went for it. :)

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What's with the 'your comment must be approved' thing on this board?? Will it go away once I've been here a few days?  If this even shows up in the post.... LOL

 

No offense Mods - - just wondering.  :-)

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Hi Roads6!  

I wish we lived close enough to justify the water park costs. LOL  We do have a museum / imaginarium membership though! The kiddlets love it.


 


Ah, the museum is fun! We have been going on the FREE After 3 Thursdays! We also incorporate a scavenger hunt for the kids to keep them interested. :) Fun.

post #38 of 56
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Oh, ICAN of Anchorage

First meeting is next monday!

 

http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/thread/1298048/ican-of-anchorage

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Well, we had a scary day yesterday.   DS (3) had an allergic reaction to soy.  On Sunday, he got hives on his face after eating some soy yogurt.  I'd been suspecting a food sensitivity issue going on with him (besides dairy which we've known about for 2 years). So I decides, okay - no more soy. On Wed, I got called into work - I"m normally off Wed. Its lunch time so I heat up a black bean patty for the kids.  Luckily, DS didn't like it and had only a bite. 30 minutes later he tells me his lips itch and he feels icky with a head ache. After another 30 minutes he tells me he has bumblebees in his throat and they itch and buzz.  Thank the lords he is verbal and so descriptive. I gave him Benadryl call the doc who advises me -  go to ER.  DS is fine, we now have an Epi-Pen and an appointment at the allergy clinic (but not until 4/25).

 

So, anybody in/near Anchorage want some soy stuff? I have an unopened quart of plain soy yogurt (2/26 sell by date) and a couple odd  & ends of small tubs. A large bag of edemame (kinds freezer burned though). I'm still going through stuff, I mgiht have more.  PM me.

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NEW QUESTION!!!

My 4yo is really really really into dinosaurs. Does Anchorage (or Soldotna!) have anything dinosaur-oriented? Like a museum, or a playplace, or a science center or anything? DH has to go up to Anchorage in April (teacher job fair!) and I'm thinking about making it a family trip...


 

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Maybe Alaskans are just the kindest people ever?

 

That has been my experience too. :)

 

 

I'm also considering launching into the childbirth education world. I haven't trained formally with any organizations, although I have read lots of the books, but I wouldn't be actually teaching for probably another year or so... I wouldn't be teaching a specific method, but pulling from many sources and teaching a more eclectic 'here are options, do what's good for you' type of class. A couple of friends of mine do this in other states and it's going really well for them. I've been considering being a CBE for about 5-6 years, and for most of that time have been thinking I'll certify with Birthing From Within (which I really really like). BUT getting to a training is expensive (let alone the training itself!) and there are only a few a year, and I know it will be a while before I can do it. One of my independent CBE friends recommended maybe a more generic training like CAPPA, and I'll just have to look into what is available... does anyone here know, does anybody do trainings in Anchorage (or Fbx)???  I would like to have a broad and diverse education, so it doesn't matter if it's CBE-oriented or doula-oriented or just generic pregnancy/childbirthing something...

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