I am 15 weeks pg with my second child, first pg ended with a emergency c-section due to fetal distress and a lot of blood loss. I have been seeing a doctor since 5 weeks and after going through my record he has said I am a candidate for a VBAC since the reasons for my c-section are not likely to occur again.
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Ideally I wanted a VBAC, at St. Joe's hospital with a female OBGYN (I wanted St. Joe's because I had such a great experience with my first child there, and I felt very comfortable there)
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Well if I want a VBAC the only Doc at St. Joe's that does VBACs and excepts my ins. is a male, and since I wanted a VBAC I sucked it up and decided to see a male doctor.
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From the beginning the staff has been horrible, they are disorganized and at times rude. I have gone to 3 apts and each time they have told me my apt is at x time and I show up about 15 mins early and they tell me oh you are mistaken your apt is actually at y time, which is 2+ hrs later. The thing is I may have made a mistake once, but they give me an apt reminder card and they call the day before to confirm and it is at x time and when they tell me I am wrong they get an attitude and tell me they are sorry and there is nothing they can do, and if it is such a problem for me I should call the morning of my apt and double check. Also anytime I call it takes a minimum of 24 hrs for me to receive a call back, which at 15 weeks is not a big deal, but later on that could be an issue. As far as the Doc, he seems nice and the first apt he was supportive of a VBAC, but the last 2 apt he has made comments like if I still decide to do a VBAC, that he would not recommend one for his wife and keeps making comments about us needing to sit down at talk about the risks. I agree about talking about the risk, but he wants to put it off, I think he thinks I will just change my mind and he wont have to do a VBAC. I get the feeling now that no matter what I will end up with a c-section because he will come up with a reason that my body wont be able to handle a VBAC.
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Because of this I have decided I need to change my OB, which leaves me needing to decide between TMC and UMC since there are no other doctors who will take me at St. Joe's. I need advice on which hospital is better, on paper they are similar, so I would like personal recommendations.
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Some ?s
Which hospital did you deliver at, did you like it?
Who was your doctor, did you like him/her?
Was the nurses and techs nice, did they listen to your requests?
After you delivered and were moved to your "recovery" room, did you get a private room?
How was the hospital about visitors, where they very strict about time and number of people?
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Also any advice on VBACs in Tucson from people with experience or are "in the know" would be greatly appreciate, like which doctor would you recommend and which hospital is the most equipped for a VBAc?









