My 19 year old son is out of control.
He is his first year in college and lives at home, well so far.
Lately he spends the nights at his 16 year old girl friends house and her parents seem to promote it.
I have a daughter myself, and would never have allowed for her boyfriend to spend the night.
Anyway, with the snow and icestorm we wanted him to be home before it gets real bad. He just came home to let us know he will be spending the night at her house. I literally pleaded with him to not drive in this weather and he just laughed and said I can't tell him anything he is 19.
Besides the fact that I love him and hate to see something happening to him I am also missing a little bit of respect. He just laughs when I tell him something, I feel like crap.
We take care of everything for him financially, and all I'm asking for is a little bit of respect and maybe , please the feeling that he still cares about me some. I'm so unhappy right now and he is not comming home again and I don't want to loose him but I also don't want to be treated like crap all the time. It's I don't know, i don't know what to do anymore.