What is everyone planning for their babymoon time? Do you have specific ideas about it? What are you planning to tell people? What are you planning to do? Wear? Eat?
I'm thinking about this lots because I know how important it is going to be this time around, for healing and my mental health. Last time I had to be up and about too soon and took forever to heal, and had quite bad ppd. I think I will let people know ahead of time that I am holding to the '15 day rule' that I've been hearing about - 5 days in the bed, 5 days on the bed and 5 days around it. I think we will be fine with short visits starting the day after the birth, but since I will be in bed it will naturally keep them short and stress free. We have a lot of out of town relatives, and our grandparents don't travel anymore, but I am going to be letting them know it will be at least 2 months before we go very far.
I want to treat myself to something nice to wear so I will be comfortable and feel good, and hopefully look ok in all our new baby photos :) I don't know what would be good, maybe a comfy sleep bra and a light robe, so skin to skin is easy but I can cover up for company or whatever.
I'm hoping to have our relatives help out quite a bit with the kids, taking them to the park, or just hanging out with them for a couple of hours. My sister and brother live in town and are good with that sort of thing. I think my mother in law might even take them for a night or two which would be good, for them as much as me.