I have very similar food restrictions, so I can relate to how you feel. At first it was hard, but I'm finding that with a little knowledge and creativity, I'm eating better, and feeling better, than ever. Feeling deprived is no fun. Low blood sugar from not eating enough turns me into an irritable witch. I've found that I'm happiest when I have lots of yummy food, with a lot of variety. Planning in advance is key. Having foods on hand that I can eat is the most important thing I can do for my well-being, and since I'm also breastfeeding and preparing the meals for the family, it's the most important thing I can do for them too.
One of my hobbies is to check out good cookbooks from the local library. I like to give myself the challenge of cooking two new dishes every week - something we've never had before. Here are a few of my favorite cookbooks:
The Quick and Easy Organic Gourmet: Delicious, Healthy Meals without Meat, Wheat, Dairy, or Sugar
http://www.amazon.com/Quick-Easy-Organic-Gourmet-Delicious/dp/1886449007
Cooking the Whole Foods Way: Your Complete, Everyday Guide to Healthy Eating
http://www.amazon.com/Cooking-Whole-Foods-Way-Complete/dp/1557882622/ref=sip_rech_dp_5
The Hip Chick's Guide to Macrobiotics
http://www.amazon.com/Hip-Chicks-Guide-Macrobiotics-Philosophy/dp/1583332057/ref=pd_sim_b_4
Glow
http://www.amazon.com/Glow-Christina-Pirello/dp/155788370X/ref=pd_sim_b_3
The Self Healing Cookbook: Whole Foods to Balance Mind, Body and Moods
http://www.amazon.com/Self-Healing-Cookbook-Whole-Foods-Balance/dp/0945668155/ref=pd_sim_b_7
Here are a few food ideas:
Brown RIce Pasta - Tinkyada brand is good, with tofu alfredo sauce (tofu, white miso, oregano, water, olive oil)
Polenta with Oven Roasted Veggies and a protein (tempeh sausage or meat, etc.)
Indian dal - (split mung beans, onion, garlic, ginger) over brown rice or quinoa
Indian chana masala - garbanzo beans cooked with onion, garlic, and garam masala spice over rice or quinoa
Baked sweet potatoes with a spoonful of coconut oil - yum!!
Rice crackers or rice cakes with hummus or black bean dip or nut butter (almond butter, cashew butter)
Soups - miso vegetable, carrot ginger, vegetable soups, bean soups
Wheat free polenta Cornbread:
http://www.glutenfreecookingschool.com/archives/gluten-free-southern-cornbread/
Fresh fish, especially salmon - good oils for breastfeeding
Salmon cakes using canned salmon - (potatoes, veganaise, dill, onion, celery - fry or bake)
Steamed greens (kale, collards, broccoli) with tahini sauce (tahini, water, lemon juice and/or umeboshi vinegar)
Rice noodles - like pad thai with veggies and protein (tofu or meat)
Spring rolls using rice wrappers and peanut sauce - we make a meal out of this - it's fun
Mexican night - Spanish rice, beans, tacos, tostadas, enchiladas (tofu or chicken) with corn tortillas, salsa, lettuce, vegan sour cream
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