I started swimming classes with my daughter when she was about 8 months old. And stopped after 2 lessons (the pool where we went offered a casual arrangement where you paid for each class you attended rather than the full term). For the most part we weren't doing anything in the class which I wasn't already doing with her in the pool at home. Except for putting her head under, which was really the main reason I went.
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It. was. horrible. My poor little love tried so hard to be brave but she was always so shocked when she came up. And there were always tears. I told myself it would be worth it but it felt very wrong. And then I started to worry that she would come to hate swimming if every time we went in the pool I was pushing her under the water. So I did some looking online and decided that we would let her go at her own pace. Lots of swimming and water play but no pushing her under (and these were *not* ISR classes BTW). It is the way we approach everything else after all. And I apologised to her for pushing her under and making her cry.Â
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I am so, so glad I made this decision. And she is progressing, at her own pace. This afternoon DH and I took her swimming and she was walking up and down holding onto the side and she kept squatting down so her face went into the water up to her nose. Completely on her own. Completely happy. And my brother was playing with her and splashing her face and she was grinning away.
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The class we went to did teach the jump in, turn around, swim to the edge and climb out routine and I do think that is valuable. But, she doesn't have the strength or motor skills to do it yet anyway even if she did have the presence of mind to try. As she gets older we will continue to practice that though.
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I should also say that some of my friends' babies love being dunked and I have no problem with swimming lessons in general when they are a positive experience.Our experience wasn't in line with our gentle parenting philosophy so it wasn't right for us. I think it could be valuable for some though.