My son has blood in his urine. And I'm waiting to hear back from the doc on when we can go to get a urinalysis. We love his doc, who has never even touched DS's penis. But last time he had to give a urine sample with the bag (after surgery when he had had a catheter for 24 hours), the nurse retracted him just far enough to dab the tip of his glans with an alcohol wipe)... I want to avoid any retraction, and I'm not sure who we're gonna get to do this.
So, my plan is to go in there and say "Do not retract or pull his foreskin back in any way." And when they respond that they have to do that to get the urine sample... then what do I say? What if they want to get the sample by catheter and they want to retract him? Exactly what words do I use with them when they argue with me about needing to retract him?
I need to feel armed and ready, mamas!